Thursday, September 29, 2011

Our respect and tribute to Mr Ng

DATE: 29-9-2011

Dear Ms Ng and family,Image:Arum lilies 2777.jpg

We are 黄仁杰's family and I am Donna. I have heard that Mr Ng just left us this afternoon. We are here to share with your pain and sorrow for loss such a good member of your family and friend of our family.

Mr Ng was one of the kindest and warmhearted persons we had ever seen. He became  my  insurance client as soon as I advised him to purchase an insurance, although he had one or two already. He definitely wanted to give his family the best protection. On top of that, together with Chun Chun,, they spent half day showing our around  UST in December 2009, boosting  my son's confidence in getting into this prestige university.

Some days ago, we have sent our earnest concern and support to him -
Dear Samuel,
 
Wong Yan Kit and our whole family here send our best wish for you and are so gratified to see you are positively battling the disease. Meanwhile we enjoy your hobby that brings us so many beautiful views of our nature.
 
Actually nothing is more important then having a positive attitude to life and optimistic view to ourselves. It is the first medicine we need to cure any diseases. I wish we are as positive as you in adversity.


We understood these days will be the most difficult time for you. We are here to send our warmest concern and deepest condolence. We are sure you will strongly get through  the hard time ...


Take care!

Wong Yan Kit
Donna
Eugene

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30-9-2011

Kit,

It was my first time to call somebody in such sad time. I was hesitate because I didn't want to make them sadder. But I know I must do something to express our concern and caring.

I was surprised and gratified to find the voice of Mrs Ng was peaceful, calm and soft as usual. She said his husband has given the whole family so much positive energy  that she and two sons are learning from him to be strong and serene during this hard time. She told me Mr Ng didn't suffer as bad as expected and had done proper arrangement before his leave so that the whole family would not be panic but can be easier to get through grieving time.
I told her we have sent our concern to them through Mr Ng's email. She said their sons will check the emails.

We shared our tribute to him by remembering his hobbies and pictures. We all believe Mr Ng just wanted his families and friends to live fully every moment with passion and meaning as him.
D

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29-9-11

Eugene,

Have you sent the email to Uncle Ng asking him if he would participate in 10KM Marathon ? No matter you have sent or have not, we will never be able to receive his lovely photos from now on.

Your father couldn't see him gone when his classmates and he rushed to  Shatin Hospital this later afternoon.

Just a few days ago,  we sent our earnest support and concern to him. We sent our sincere appreciation to his passion of photographing as follows:
Dear Samuel,
 
Wong Yan Kit and our whole family here send our best wish for you and are so gratified to see you are positively battling the disease. Meanwhile we enjoy your hobby that brings us so many beautiful views of our nature.
 
Actually nothing is more important then having a positive attitude to life and optimistic view to ourselves. It is the first medicine we need to cure any diseases. I wish we are as positive as you in adversity.


Uncle Ng was one of the kindest and warmhearted persons I had ever seen. He became  my  insurance client as soon as I advised him to purchase an insurance, although he had one or two already. He definitely wanted to give his family the best protection. On top of that, together with his son, they spent half day showing us around  UST in December 2009, boosting  you confidence in getting into this prestige university.

I simply could concentrate on my dance class this evening, I was in deep sorrow for loss of such good friend of our family and one of your husband's  best friends.

Well, what we can do to show our condolence and sorrow for loss of such a good man?

Yesterday I watched an TV interview on Tong's group's vice president, a 29 year-old- young guy. He remembered his father sudden leave that has made an painful impact in his life. It took a long time for him to reshape his mindset, define his position and stand on his own feet from a long term of grieve . His family group was the first investor who tapped into Pu Dong, Shanghai when everyone was still in hesitation. Now he already leads his group to become one of the biggest property investors in Shanghai.

His advice is trying to express love and care to your family whenever you can. Don't leave your thanks and gratitude behind until your loved one has left. No one knows when this will happen and all we can do is to express now and any time a sense of thanksgiving comes to your mind.

A strong sense of living up this moment, care for life and our loved ones stroke me. Nothing is more important than keeping a compassion to life, treasuring our life and our families and friends like Uncle Ng. Even in his last days, he still sent  his blog with passion to travel around the world and take more photos...


Take care!

Mom
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