Wednesday, March 8, 2017

Simple dreams is not simple

Simple dreams are not simple
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夢境可以是一個很長的故事,也可以是一兩個鏡頭!昨天和朋友探索夢境,很短,真的只有一兩個鏡頭,但夢境要講的內容,夢者的情感,背後的故事,跨越整個人生。通過夢境和敘事治療,緬懷過去的日子,疏解心结,思考如何面對新的轉變,新的挑戰,活出自在的自己,還有更多的渴望.......!
夢境背後的意義,夢者自己找到了!
夢境是 心靈之窗
揭開夢境的面紗
看到另一個自己
無限可能性的自己!
每次解夢,對我都是深刻的療愈!

Quite of learning from yesterday's talk:
1
Simple dreams are not simple
grandfather and 3yr you:
Your inner self has   Grandfather 影子
his impact to you, passion and fear all mixed , shown in your life to some extent.
And your parents' high expectations as well.
What impressed me so much was you have live up their dreams and yourself dreams, despite not 100%, some might disappointed your mom, but you found it was important to chase your own desire, passion,  become your own master.of life.
你选择做自己,而不是做罐头。You got Courage, confidence and fulfilment throughout your life.
2
Never to give up, finding all resources to make your dreams come true.
Your life experiences brings a strong message how to turn impossible to reality, because u have dreams, determination.
3
Guilt v.s. passion, affection to HK and our nation

Did u see the intention of your guilt,  it is beautiful. Give self recognition, give self a big hug. Once you inner self knows you are appreciaye yourself, his guilt will be gone.

your SLEEP dream about seeing 梁愛詩
Your heart is in HK fate. Your love beyond the small self but go farr away.
From learning past exp. you reminded us more what HK really need ,  vision!

You are soo passionate, that is Mathew.  Give yourself a big credit.

Then you found yourself is not just helpless, but still can live a great life, with dreams to make people around happier.

4
Sleep  dreams are window of Soul
All dreams help us to find ourselves at different life phase, what u really need to do NOW.
It was great to hear your daily action goals, love self truely from inside out.
Yes, we CAME UP to the point that
每个人都有能力改善自己
相信自己, 相信别人
亲密关系的🔑。
6
活到100 and beyond!!!
TO ACHIEVE THE ULTIMATE GOAL, WE ALL NEED TO HEAL OURSRLVES, TO BUILD A BETTER LIFE  .

Just amazing, the first time i heard from all of my previous sections...
Just amazing!

I really learnt soo much from you. You are my teacher, really.

Good morning Donna,                             昨晚我大概用了三个小时把你给我的feedback 看了又看,迈看迈悟,更听到一些内心的声音!我接受了人生的不完美,也感受到这也是人生完美之处。如没有比較那知完美!                                           因没有完成的要事,感恩你助了我内心的轉化,由自责和愦憾化为了可惜。在此我还要感谢你对我的肯定和鼓励。                                      
 你2 3 2017 的talk 我昨晚也听和看了,我还需多点了解才能作feedback。我今午回港后会和你联络        

Donna:
你说的很透彻,不完美,遗憾后面除了我们可以内疚,然后接纳,更重要的是看到背后的真诚,大爱,继而找回内在的力量,move forward, 关心好自己,身边挚爱的人...

允许自己有内疚,感受自己的感受,人就放松下来,放手...

我也在学习这些。接受自己能力的限制,自己不能控制的事情

  你给做了好榜样[Salute]

8 3 2017

 A wonderful talk, your advice and suggestion gave me ideas how to make dream power more convincing to audience.

Thank you soo much indeed.

As u said, dreams reminded us lots of things that we might overlooked, most importamly, it is our inner parents, adviser...    
           
Yes, from now on I would take a good look at my dreams, and try to gain some
insight.
特別是潛意識!
                      
 Really happy to see your reflection on your dream. and your finding on dream power.

11 3 2017