Monday, June 27, 2011

夫妻相处

Learning from daily life:


锋芝分手,令人叹息。我很赞同柏芝化妆师的话:婚姻并不是孩子牵着走。唯有真爱才令婚姻永存。放下一点,互相尊重,互相谅解。尽自己做丈夫,妻子和父毋的责任,样样都不能少,这便得叫我们学到老吧。

28-6-2011

Wisdom from all walks of life

we can learn anything from anywhere. Everyday I would like to drop down some inspiring, reflecting quotes and life experiences from people of any walks.




Today, 林顺潮医生谈如何面对才一岁半的儿子头部右倾及右手欠灵活等问题:



跟病魔搏斗,就如打一场仗,未必每一场仗都赢,会有输掉的时候。我接受失败却不能接受不战而败,所以我一直要沉着应战。

28-6-2011

Saturday, June 25, 2011

Talking on Creativity

Gen,


In today's FT, there is a report about angel investors and and venture capitals in USA exp. in Silicon Valley. They tend to be attracted by young people even in U who have smart ideas. Just like the development of Facebook.

"To start a business becomes much cheaper and young people without families or mortgages were also willing to live in cheap apartment, eat noodles and work long hours. Mark Zuckerberg showed that a guy (with his roommates) can code a website that's worth $ 1000BN. Now others have realised next time we hear a 19-yer-old who has a smart idea, we should listen.

What I suggest is once you have an idea, drop it down and try to learn how to discuss with others and see how to make it more viable, sophisticated and perfect. This can inspire more creative ideas from others and yourselves when going into details. In your school, there is a group of people after finishing exchanging program initiated 5 min talk which attract not only students but lectures and post graduates.

In this VCS by Dr LIN WAI XIAN , Money and You and Chris courses, I found there is something in common, that is with TEAMWORK, we always achieved something that we cannot by done by myself alone. I never imaged we could get things done just in 5 min or 10 min... Efficiency, group ideas and creativity, all excel to the max. X and Y game shows Y plus Y create max wealth - WIN WIN EFFECT and X plus X is domed to failure.

Y: Sharing, unselfishness and caring, to help others to create value

X: Selfish, to achieve something without ecological consideration

Mom

Friday, June 3, 2011

The importance of creating new path /new ideas

Gene,

Please read it and practice and you will think out of box easily:


Invincible thinking

3-6-2011

Part 2

The importance of creating new path /new ideas

I found this chapter extremely useful and practical:

When you have face dilemma, two options in contradictory, don’t give up thinking a way to solve them in best method. Don’t be frustrated at difficulties. Solving Difficulties are the process of improvement and growing up.

There was always a way to make the two options compatible and achieve two purposes at the same time. That is how to align them on the same line.

“ When you find yourself suffering as a result of two opposing desires or needs, don’t allow yourself to be driven to the point where you have to decide between one or the other. Tell yourself that there has to be a way of bring the two contradictory elements together or even finding a third option which will allow to avoid the problem altogether. You just have to continue thinking of a ways to get around the problem, If you keep trying to find a new way of overcoming difficulties, a path is sure to open up before you.


The more you practice the more new ways you will come up with to free yourself free a dilemma, this kind of mental exercise is important if you make a habit of thinking like this, you will find that the chances of coming up with a good idea increase dramatically. “

Sometimes and in most cases, so called dilemma is not reality like what you imagine, it is only your own imagination. Once you are solving them, you find they are not at odd at all. All because of your preconceived ideals limited your potential to try to think out of box. This process is called problem solving, never scared of difficulties and never pre-overwhelmed by them. Reality is much simple and easier than expected.

I found the above conclusion from changing positions of the key board an mouse from old position and strangely, we were scared by the computer until the situation was in unbearable conditions and my arms have been seriously inquired. Why? We solved it finally in 5 min and made to imaginary opposites elements on the same line – we get both benefits without any difficulties.  That is A ha.

Action power is the key of success.

DO it now and you can find the best solutions, if you avoid it, the problem only gets worse.

But the first thing is we need to have a right mindset - love giving not all taking. based on this, we will have a drive to face problems and not to pre-occupied by our fears first.

Mon



Mon

Dr Lin's course on Business System

Gene,



Regarding the BUSINESS System taught directly by DR Lin, if you can spare time, don’t miss it. The earlier you can take the better. Awareness of some common sense about business is useful and a a must for anyone. The course is far beyond common sense but skills for people to success by making fewer mistakes in future.



It can make your ahead and prepared and. But To build up a new knowledge and mindset takes time. Many people think they have enough business experience or knowledge but it is not true. So you can see very few can make life with added value to others.



To know how to fish with a fast track and system is essential for a living. I believe all the courses will give you a new prospective to the world in much more systematic and thorough approach, a key for a better, happier and truly fulfilled life so that you can help more people and yourself.



After the course, you will have more clear direction each day for what you are doing and life with purpose. You don’t have to have a plan on what you will do before taking the course. Many people get lost and have no plan and even money but borrow money to take it to find their directions and wealth. The course is full of energy and fun. You can see Dr Lin is extremely humorous and his course must be full of wisdom and laughter, food for thought.



Imagine if a company asks you to lead a project and team or if Uncle Qiu or Patrick thinks you are capable to set up an office in HK for their business, if you have prepared and equipped or at least have some knowledge, you will have confidence to say “Yes I can or let me try.” Or if you want to go straight to be an entrepreneur, you have confidence and resources.



Of course, if your time is booked for must -do activities, postpone to next year is not a problem. The thing is you should put this in a higher priority.



Success is not only dependant on opportunity but wisdom and knowledge



Dr Lin said,



"Smart people see what others do;

Wise people see why and how others do"



Mon