b,
Try to use smile esp. when wanting to deliver tough ideas to others ( persuasive power increases by smiling) or when things are not going well, always smile and you will become much smarter and resourceful.
Like your father. I and your grand Ma tried so much to convince him to go out to meet people after retirement, he was so repulsive, being engaged in his "heavy" history at home. Even getting a mobile was a big issue to him no matter how many people around asking him to have one immediately.
That state would be definitely damage his health and the family. Then I tried to use humors way, that worked!. He finally went out to see new people. Now he will found Tai Qi and hiking is changing his life and he found more and more, it is him to control his health instead counting his life at such young age.
So I found if I change my communication way, with more patience, smile instead of worrying tone, a 大男人can be a humble, confident inside-out man gradually...
mom
Cheer.
4-5-2012
Try to use smile esp. when wanting to deliver tough ideas to others ( persuasive power increases by smiling) or when things are not going well, always smile and you will become much smarter and resourceful.
Like your father. I and your grand Ma tried so much to convince him to go out to meet people after retirement, he was so repulsive, being engaged in his "heavy" history at home. Even getting a mobile was a big issue to him no matter how many people around asking him to have one immediately.
That state would be definitely damage his health and the family. Then I tried to use humors way, that worked!. He finally went out to see new people. Now he will found Tai Qi and hiking is changing his life and he found more and more, it is him to control his health instead counting his life at such young age.
So I found if I change my communication way, with more patience, smile instead of worrying tone, a 大男人can be a humble, confident inside-out man gradually...
mom
Cheer.
4-5-2012
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