Are you the beneficiary or victim of your life?

My diary:

I just found that -

if we think we are the beneficiaries of what we have done for others without asking for return, we will be happy at any time; If we think we are the victims and care so much at how much to be paid, we will be always unhappy.

People who are unhappy usually trap themselves at the prison of victim-game.

Dr Wah Shan has sets an excellent example of feeling benefited at what he has done for others. Life is so fulfilled for him, I believe.

The ultimate source of a happy life is warm-heartedness. This means extending to others the kind of concern we have for ourselves. On a simple level we find that if we have a compassionate heart we naturally have more friends. And scientists today are discovering that while anger and hatred eat into our immune system, warm-heartedness and compassion are good for our health. ~ Dalai Lama

今天不管遇到什么事，请保持微笑:

微笑是人生最好的名片。谁不希望跟一个乐观向上的人交朋友呢？微笑能给自己一种信心，也能给别人一种信心，从而更好地激发潜能。

微笑也是朋友间最好的语言。一个自然流露的微笑，胜过千言万语，无论是初次谋面也好，相识已久也好，微笑能拉近人与人之间的距离，令彼此之间倍感温暖。(From FACEBOOK)

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