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下星期一(4/3/2013)是DAG 最後一課 「感恩之夜」﹐請你邀請1-3位嘉賓出席。
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7﹕30- 8﹕20 -- 天堂晚宴
8﹕30-10﹕30 -- 感恩分享
華山
The night on 4th March, 2013 was truly one of the most unforgettable moments in my life. It will stay in my mind for the rest of my life.
As soon long as Wah Shan told the story of Heaven Dinner and the
rules of the heaven dinner, everyone was puzzled what to happen
about the bizarre dinner rule and
couldn't wait to try – to feed others but not
self in the Heaven Dinner.
To my families, as children, we
never ever fed our parents in our life. A bit embarrassed to me at first.
But the feeling was gone as soon as my father put food into my mouth, my son
fed his father. Suddenly, all room was
in chaos and boiling laughter. You know what? I fed my husband, my coach, classmates and
people I didn't not know their names...we
were immersed in a playful but warm heaven.
After the exhilaratingly noisy
time, the grateful time started.
I raised my hand first to start my thanksgiving time
by leading my whole family to the front of the class. I remember
my voice was loud enough with confidence and my face was beamed with smiles,
having a sense of being in a dream, in
the heaven. I had never expected I dared to express my love to my family; but
in the heaven time, I did it without any fright. Now I know I can do it and I
made it. So did my classmates! I felt proud of myself and my classmates. Awesome!
Dear Hubby: We have been together
for more than 23 years and got through many ups and downs like other families.
Each up and down was a learning process to enhance our understanding and
compassion to each other. Thank you to say "I love you" every day to
me and I must say say "I love you" in front of all people here.
Dear Daddy: Thank you to give me a
carefree childhood and you are the most open-minded parent in my mind. You are
also the happiest 80s in my mind as well. In your birthday party, you
made wishes to write a new book and to travel around the world continuously.
You will make it and take care of yourself.
My sister--in-law: Every year, I
can receive your gift that made me so happy. Thank you! You shared the marathon
event you have saw with us and inspired us to know nothing is impossible. You
will be more positive when you go out to see more positive events.
Eugy: You calmness to computer
problems and helping attitude made me so gratified. As I have said, you are on
the course of becoming a real human-being.
What was most surprising and
grateful was Kit, my husband expressed his thanks to me in front of the full
house: he thanked for my understanding, forgiving and patience. He
said there are many unexpected disagreements after a child is born. We all experienced this.
Eugy expressed his gratitude to
his aunty, grandpa and our parents:
To Aunty: I felt so happy when you
came to the Marathon to see our running and to feel the heat of sport spirit. I
thank you for your support.
To grandfather: Grandfather, you
cook wonderful food for us every weekend. I feel so grateful for your love.
Father: Now I feel I can connect
to you esp. when hiking together. We feel so happy to talk heart-to-heart at
the hiking time.
Mommy: thank you so much for bring
me to DP, which have help me to solve some issues. I felt lighter now.
My father's expression was so
short but profound: He said every Saturday when Eugy is back from school, he
cooks for us and have a gathering with Eugy. Eugy is growing up to be
more human: 他的心中除了自己,还有我们,你们和他们,我现在放心了!
At the end, I presented to my family: my son, my hubby and my father - three cards
filled with words that I wanted to say for ages to my husband, my son and my
father respectively, in which I am grateful for their understanding and love
and request their feedback ...
Originally, I prepared a long
script with intention to thank all people who I learnt from in the two
months. However, under time pressure, I only remembered to thank my family:
I would like to thank Dr Wah Shan,
all DP25 coaching team and my classmates who made the course a journey of
humanity searching.
Wah Shan: you makes me understand
what humanity and life influence life means; You leads me to find my shadows,
merits and beautiful traits...
Red: It was you who leaded
me to DP and taught me to see children's potential and positive intention
rather than lived in worrying/anxious conditions. You advised me all I
need to do is to encourage, support appreciate and share with my son. I found
this approach is workable and the result is amazing. I can't thank you
enough...Just hope to share with
you soon.
Louisa: Your angel-like, soft but
firm voice always guild me to think and to get all possibilities for problem
solving. Each call was precious to me, enlightening me to find a peaceful,
stronger, empathetic, resourceful self. I missed the time.
Maggie: you have a beautiful heart
and overflowed love to your family and everyone. You will get through the
difficult time with your strong character and beloved people around you, esp.
your son and your helper.
Ada: Wow, you are a remarkably
strong, kindhearted lady; Your appreciation to everyone in your
family will bring a brilliant relationship instantly. Your experience teaches
us that our belief can either enslave us and set us free. Thank you, Ada, we
all love you.
Jackie: you are the happiest wife
and you have a wonderful hubby because of his humor and love. Just
want to thank you for your sharing, which showed me how happy life I have been
having and how shameful to complain.
Gary: You've got a strong, loving
family with a strong and loving mother as the best example. I can feel your
hard time in your childhood like many children under unbearable pressure, but
you've got through and now you started to help people with
your compassion.
So happy to have you as an example
of young people.
Vivian: your heartfelt thankful
words to your mother and your mother's apology was so powerful that deeply
impressed everyone. If we are sincere and honest to others, we will connect
with others easily and we will receive the same deep connection from
others.
I learnt from Wah Shan and
from our classmates that Forgiveness is to accept imperfection of
life and the wonder of life is to make our life perfect.
Queenie: Your tearful, heartfelt
words to your husband and your husband ‘sincerity proved the truth:
everyone need love and aspire to love. There is no perfect love as there is no
identical two lovers in characters; but there is a process to make imperfect
to perfect.
If we open heart to others,
people will return the same to us.
The whole night was full of
warmth, sincerity, tears and laughter.
The night showed me the DP courses
do not only work but really successful.
I didn't expect my classmates
could be so sweet, open, direct and so expressive to their families and
people they were thankful.
I experienced a journey of opening
to our heart; a night of Being, living NOW and live in Love. A moment of be
more aware of the meaning of love and connecting to true love.
I found Being & and Living Love can be a reality for anyone.
I realized it is possible to have a happy and care-free ( 自在人生) life as
my childhood; it is possible to step out of the box with concepts, traditional ideologies, old beliefs, masks and self-ego. It is possible
to connect with people heart to heart if we have a beautiful mind
and subconscious power.
Somehow I didn't
imagine showing our love, gratitude and talking with families in such direct
ways could be a reality. After five days, I still felt it was surreal night
- incredible night. I seem to be into the night every time when I
think about it. I can’t distinguish reality and dream. But one thing was
certain – everyone can go back to their childhood, to be childlike and everyone
need be loved and to love..
Am I living in a
heaven?
After five days
since the dinner, I swam living in the dream of heaven dinner and want to
freeze the time. Yes, this moment will stay in our lives
Thanks DP, thanks
Dr Wah Shan, you gave us an real experience about love and practice love.
We all love you!
8-3-2013
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| To my husband |
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| To my Father |
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| To my son |
Some points:
The heaven dinner proved me
1 Everyone can find his childhood and be a
carefree child again. In the dinner, we can see no matter who was old and young
and even Maggie’s son, we were all mad. Even my father enjoyed the dinner mood.
2 The feeling of direct expression to families is so
nice and sweet. Experience Being and living at the moment is so free and happy.
3 Love is human nature. Everyone need love and
caring and appreciation Once we show our caring and love, our families will feel it and we can
get their love in return. If we have humanity, we can gain control.
4 If we can harness subconscious power, we can go back
to our fearless childhood. Speak to people will be not a frightening thing. Facing falls and gets up are only a facts of life,
Nothing to scare about.
Just trust your subconscious mind and
follow your heart and you will be doing better than expected.
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