Part 2: Blank spots
(27-7-2010)
It’s not about what happens to us that matters, it’s about how we respond.
We all have a choice in how we respond to events around us.
Perception is projection. Reality is subjective and an imagination.
If we can control our emotion, we can control our life.
There is no failure but only result and response. Utilize everything for improvement.
Learn to control your mind. Otherwise it controls you.
These sentences were oftentimes reminded in the Breakthrough to Success by Christ and Jonnie. Christ NLP course teaches us how to put them into practice to bring desired goals.
In our bringing up process, we have been constantly hypnotized that Life is like That and that is life or Life is hard. We have to come to terms with it. But what is life – is it the old pictures that people told us? NO. Even reality itself is ironic. In NLP world or more accurately speaking, in our brain’s thinking world, there is a no a unique reality. Reality is virtual itself. It can be completely different from person to person because everyone has their own meta-pattern due to their different primary Representation system, growing up experiences, backgrounds, value system and belief. Through all of these filters, we get a mixed ideas or perceptions of life that is our own reality – an imaginary scenario of life.
So whenever an idea or opinion or even belief strikes us, no matter it if it is internal or external, we should ask if the view involves any certain blank spots that need to improve. By reframing or think from different points of view, we can expand your views and empower us to see things more objectively. This is critical because our emotion, decisions and behavior are all controlled by our opinions and how we see our reality.
Changing in beliefs, values and attitudes will bring about fundamental progresses and thus more opportunities.
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