Friday, July 14, 2017

解梦的力量

Last night, CK shared his dream with me and we discussed for a long time. I learnt so much from his dream insights and wisdom...🌈🌈🌈
Here  is parts of the dream insights天花板就要塌下来了

CK dream:
DREAM
6 7 2017 midnight 3 pm
In the dream, the ceiling is going to crush, feeling soo insecure and waked up.
Not very scared but went out to sleep in a sofa bed. When turn on the light, he couldn’t be able to find the door to the dinning room. Very sleepy, 朦朦胧胧,半醒半睡!
In the morning, surprised he did go out to sleep. Followed his intuition.
TRIGGERS
1
At the end of July, he is going to completed two years of separation. Decided to ask for devoice. In the group of his DP31, he looks very positive and forgiving ness, but he now claimed to take such action, people WOW and feel he betrays his promises, he is under people pressure
2
Family pressure: not all siblings agree with him and are very angry with him. More bis his wife Joyce.
Annisa mother: not agree with him to marry Annisa if not divocie.
3
Joyce , his wife is the key to be worried and one of biggest worry is the impact of divorce to his son.
4
His son: very hate him, cannot communicate for a long time even at home before
Dream insights:
1 feeling 醒来, 感觉在梦中,他不是那么害怕,但被吓醒。我认为,潜意识天花板下榻的可能性只是一个比喻,所以,不是真实的下榻,所以,很深的惊吓,而不是表面上的。因为他马上离开睡房,而且急得找不到门。可见,内在是害怕,fearful
2
天花板下榻,是个很大的事情呀!
暗示有什么事情可能会发生?关系破裂!更多的关系的破裂!
在倾谈中,感受到CK有几方面的worry,不安:
 身边朋友的不被理解,不安,
女朋友和家人也有不安,如果不离婚
太太是最大的不接纳,不了解,不同意
家人也有些不认同,导致关系
儿子的关系,从来不敢去接触。
3
我让他想想离婚和不离婚的分别,真正的爱不是一张婚约,就是一定要离婚,离婚也要有家庭的爱!给儿子爱!
儿子是最大的受害者,要扭转这个局面!
要让太太放心,自己和儿子的关系改善会带来情感的连结,让他感受到有爱!
让太太心身安顿,儿子就会安顿!
4
CK可以表达对太太的关心,同时大家在一起会有摩擦,对孩子未必是好事!但离开家,我其实从没有离开心中的家,我的梦时时刻刻都提醒我要对家人负责,关心大家,维系关系,不想天花板掉下来,屋顶飘走,席子飞走,恐惧背后-噩梦背后,都是爱!感受恐惧,恐惧就会消失,勇气就会出来,梦境背后的渴望就会实现!

5 恐惧背后-噩梦背后,都是爱!感受恐惧,恐惧就会消失,勇气就会出来,梦境背后的渴望就会实现!

CK:

非常多謝Donna讓我更深層次地瞭解自己的潛意識🙏🙏🙏
我確需要勇氣去面對自己,去消除自己的担心,去感受Joyce和兒子Ken的傷痛,不要讓天花板真的塌下來!我需要重建與她們的關係,幫助她們接受現況;同時間,要加强與Anissa和她家人的諒解,讓天花板完整無缺!我會努力的💪💪💪
再次多謝Donna🙏🙏🙏

14 7 2017

Saturday, July 1, 2017

Natural Beauty at home

Chris Guerriero Chris@energyfactor.tv via priorityoneemail.com 

Jun 30 (1 day ago)
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Rice Bran is a very effective exfoliator, wrinkle fighter and skin lightener.

Cranberry fights wrinkles and honey moisturizes.

Take 5-6 Cranberries and blend it with the help of a hand blender to make a smooth paste.

Mix in one Tbsp. Rice Bran.

Add one tsp. Honey. 

Apply (this mixture on your face and gently scrub off after ten minutes.)

I found this and a TON of other great natural beauty recipes in The Beauty Cookbook.

There are recipes to replace nearly all of those toxic beauty supplies you're currently purchasing.

You're going to have fun, and save some money!


To your mega-health, 
Chris Guerriero
Host: Energy Factor TV
Founder: National Metabolic and Longevity Research Center
...

Tuesday, May 30, 2017

冲绳的历史

冲绳之恋,回来后很留意这个像是中国和东南亚的岛,集体潜意识不像是日本人的地方,但意识上有充满日本文化的地方。"看一個不似日本的日本",今天的明报作家版,讲冲绳的内在自己是什么:


30 5 2017

Eating fruit skill

Please share this post as much as possible.

Eating Fruit on Empty Stomach

Cancer patients shouldn't die..

This will open your eyes ! Read to the end and then send it on to all on your e-list. I just did !

Dr Stephen Mak treats terminal ill cancer patients by an "un-orthodox" way and many patients recovered.

Before he used solar energy to clear the illnesses of his patients, he believes on natural healing in the body against illnesses.
See his article below.

"It is one of the strategies to heal cancer. As of late, my success rate in curing cancer is about 80%."

"Cancer patients shouldn't die.
The cure for cancer is already found - *its in the way we eat fruits."

"It is whether you believe it or not."

"I am sorry for the hundreds of cancer patients who die under the conventional treatments."

EATING FRUIT

We all think eating fruits means just buying fruits, cutting it and just popping it into our mouths.

It's not as easy as you think. It's important to know how and when to eat the fruits.

What is the correct way of eating fruits?

IT MEANS NOT EATING FRUITS AFTER YOUR MEALS!

FRUITS SHOULD BE EATEN ON AN EMPTY STOMACH

If you eat fruits on empty stomach, it will play a major role to detoxify your system, supplying you with a great deal of energy for weight loss and other life activities.

FRUIT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT FOOD.

Let's say you eat two slices of bread and then a slice of fruit.

The slice of fruit is ready to go straight through the stomach into the intestines, but it is prevented from doing so due to the bread taken before the fruit.

In the meantime the whole meal of bread & fruit rots and ferments and turns to acid.

The minute the fruit comes into contact with the food in the stomach and digestive juices, the entire mass of food begins to spoil.

So please eat your fruits on an empty stomach or before your meals !

You have heard people complaining :

Every time I eat watermelon 🍉 I burp, when I eat durian 🍈 my stomach bloats up, when I eat a banana 🍌 I feel like running to the toilet, etc.. etc..

Actually all this will not arise if you eat the fruit on an empty stomach.

The fruit mixes with the putrefying of other food and produces gas and hence you will bloat !

Greying hair, loss of hair, balding, nervous outbursts and dark circles under the eyes all these will NOT happen if you take fruits on an empty stomach.

There is no such thing as some fruits, like orange 🍊 and lemon 🍋 are acidic, because all fruits become alkaline in our body, according to Dr. Herbert Shelton who did research on this matter.

If you have mastered the correct way of eating fruits, you have the  SECRET of beauty, longevity, health, energy, happiness and normal weight.

When you need to drink fruit juice - drink only fresh fruit juice, NOT from the cans, packs or bottles.

Don't even drink juice that has been heated up.

Don't eat cooked fruits because you don't get the nutrients at all.

You only get its taste.
Cooking destroys all the vitamins.

But eating a whole fruit is better than drinking the juice.

If you should drink the fresh fruit juice, drink it mouthful by mouthful slowly, because you must let it mix with your saliva before swallowing it.

You can go on a 3-day fruit fast to cleanse or detoxify your body.

Just eat fruits and drink fresh fruit juice throughout the 3 days.

And you will be surprised when your friends tell you how radiant you look !

KIWI fruit:
Tiny but mighty.
This is a good source of potassium, magnesium, vitamin E & fiber. Its vitamin C content is twice that of an orange.

APPLE:🍎🍏
An apple a day keeps the doctor away?
Although an apple has a low vitamin C content, it has antioxidants & flavonoids which enhances the activity of vitamin C thereby helping to lower the risks of colon cancer, heart attack & stroke.

STRAWBERRY:🍓🍓
Protective Fruit.
Strawberries have the highest total antioxidant power among major fruits & protect the body from cancer-causing, blood vessel-clogging and free radicals.

ORANGE :🍊🍊
Sweetest medicine.
Taking 2-4 oranges a day may help keep colds away, lower cholesterol, prevent & dissolve kidney stones as well as lessens the risk of colon cancer.

WATERMELON:🍉🍉
Coolest thirst quencher. Composed of 92% water, it is also packed with a giant dose of glutathione, which helps boost our immune system.

They are also a key source of lycopene the cancer fighting oxidant.
Other nutrients found in watermelon 🍉 are Vitamin C & Potassium.

GUAVA & PAPAYA:🍑🍑
Top awards for vitamin C. They are the clear winners for their high vitamin C content.

Guava is also rich in fiber, which helps prevent constipation.

Papaya is rich in carotene; this is good for your eyes.

Drinking COLD water or drinks after a meal = CANCER

Can you believe this ?

For those who like to drink cold water or cold drinks, this article is applicable to you.

It is nice to have a cup of cold water or cold drinks after a meal.

However, the cold water or drinks will solidify the oily stuff that you have just eaten.

It will slow down the digestion.

Once this 'sludge' reacts with the acid, it will break down and be absorbed by the intestine faster than the solid food.

It will line the intestine.

Very soon, this will turn into FATS and lead to CANCER !

It is best to drink hot soup or warm water after a meal.

Let's be careful and be aware. The more we know the better chance we could survive.

A cardiologist says:
if everyone who gets this msg & share it to other people you can be sure that you'll save at least one life.

So lets do it! 😃😄

Friday, May 26, 2017

西双版纳游览



大象画画

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mvR5a0Skq_o




世界上唯一能看見孔雀飛翔的地方!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d6k1pkp6CU4&t=162s



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d6k1pkp6CU4


世界奇觀,孔雀飛翔
1999年5月29日,雲南西雙版納原始森林公園建成開放。早上8 點,天空剛剛發亮,一輛輛電瓶車滿載著遊客的歡聲而來,靜靜的孔雀山莊被喚醒了,成千隻孔雀從森林裡飛出,舞動著翅膀滑翔而下,在遊客前安然覓食,讓遊人拍照,給遊客帶來驚喜無數。這個世界上罕見的奇景,得益於發明人俞錦方。
西雙版納素有「孔雀之鄉」的美稱,這裡居住的傣族人是最多的,傣族人民心中孔雀是吉祥、幸福、美麗、善良的象徵,在一千多年的漫漫歷史長河中,蘊育和形成了「孔雀文化」。每逢佳節,傣族人民都要雲集一堂,觀看由民間藝人表演的根據民間故事、神話傳說,以及佛經故事等編成的孔雀舞,來表現孔雀的習性。一次,俞錦方正在觀看根據神話故事 《魔鬼與孔雀》編排的舞蹈,這個舞蹈表現了魔鬼欲霸占孔雀為妻,人面鳥身的孔雀,奮力抖動自己美麗的羽毛,那絢麗、燦爛的光芒使魔鬼兄弟雙目失明,孔雀取得了勝利。俞錦方突然靈感迸發,為何不在森林公園內加上孔雀放飛的表演呢?他請教幾位當地傣族老人,老人們說孔雀像雞,恐怕放飛不了。俞錦方感到如果像雞,說明有放飛的潛質,他記憶中雞還是能舞動雙翼的,儘管飛的不遠,但肯定能飛。
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全國勞動模範、孔雀放飛的發明人、雲南湄公河集團董事長俞錦方
公園的入口處,有一塊不大的水面,當地人叫它「金湖」。一汪碧水的湖面上,飄散著點點荷葉,幾朵粉紅色蓮花悄然綻放,湖對面是翠綠的小山,被鬱鬱蔥蔥的樹木覆蓋著。俞錦方借著得天獨厚的「金湖」,做起了放飛孔雀的夢,他以每隻300元的價格,從廣州購進了300隻孔雀,這些小精靈體型像雁那麼大,有三四尺高,頸部細,背部隆起,頭部有三根毛,約一寸長,早晨鳴叫聲此起彼伏。就是這300隻孔雀後來成為這個世界上最先挑戰極限的孔雀,它們在「金湖」完成了放飛,它們在這兒繁衍生息,短短几年功夫,這裡就成了東南亞最大的孔雀繁育基地之一,這裡也成為世界上唯一能放飛孔雀的地方。現在園內飼養了10000多隻綠孔雀、藍孔雀、白孔雀。「金湖」也因此更名為孔雀山莊。
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到西雙版納的人都要去原始森林公園,去原始森林公園的人必看孔雀放飛表演。我們都只是聽說過或者看過《孔雀東南飛》,其實孔雀雙翼不太發達,而且顯得笨拙,它的翅膀多用作求偶或者比美的,並沒有強勁的力量去飛翔。
只見一位美麗的傣族少女在湖對岸吹響了哨子,孔雀們應著呼喚,舒展開美麗的雙翅,從山頂貼著樹梢依次飛下,若飄飄仙子欣然而至,落到碧水湖畔的對岸:一隻,兩隻,幾十隻,幾百隻,成群接隊地飛過來了,壯觀的場景讓人目不暇接。傣族少女向孔雀投食,它們豎起了那五彩繽紛的尾羽,昂首闊步走著。有三個一群的,有五個一夥的,好像美人兒拖著翠色的長裙子,四處轉游,根本也不避遊客。這時,只見一隻花孔雀把尾巴抖得嘩嘩響,那漂亮的尾巴就像仙女手中的彩扇,慢慢散開,又像透亮的珍珠撒在它身上,拖在尾後的長長的羽毛都挺直起來,圍成一個圓圈,像一把五顏六色的大花傘,又像一塊圓形的彩緞。
「快看!快看!!」有人驚叫起來了,原來是一隻孔雀正在開屏,它猶如一把碧紗宮扇,尾羽上那些眼斑反射著光彩,好像無數面小鏡子,那小巧的頭上像插著幾朵翡翠花,展開的彩屏像一把巨大的羽毛扇,一個個黑環,黑、綠、黃相間,像是無數隻大眼睛。
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這全是生態美,自然美,美得人心曠神怡,美得人心都醉了,美得人流連忘返!
過了一陣,哨子聲又響起,孔雀成群結隊又越過湖面,飛回巢窩。這樣的表演只能在孔雀之鄉才能見到啊!
哨聲就是命令,一聲哨響,孔雀就開始飛翔,讓我想到衝鋒的戰士,讓我想到訓練有素的「特種兵」,讓我想到像孔雀一樣向人們展示出自己的風采的俞錦方!
孔雀放飛是一個神話,每天像這樣放飛七八次之多,每一次遊客都人滿為患。創造這個神話的俞錦方和原始森林公園的科技人員們,做著不懈地努力。據一位林姓的辦公室主任介紹,當年為了訓練孔雀飛翔,許多孔雀用生命的代價做了科研的試驗品,成活率僅40%。現在他們研製了一種新的訓練方法,確保孔雀訓練後能放飛,這是一家獨門絕技,當然是秘而不宣了。


原文網址:https://kknews.cc/travel/rez9ogn.html

Wednesday, March 8, 2017

Simple dreams is not simple

Simple dreams are not simple
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夢境可以是一個很長的故事,也可以是一兩個鏡頭!昨天和朋友探索夢境,很短,真的只有一兩個鏡頭,但夢境要講的內容,夢者的情感,背後的故事,跨越整個人生。通過夢境和敘事治療,緬懷過去的日子,疏解心结,思考如何面對新的轉變,新的挑戰,活出自在的自己,還有更多的渴望.......!
夢境背後的意義,夢者自己找到了!
夢境是 心靈之窗
揭開夢境的面紗
看到另一個自己
無限可能性的自己!
每次解夢,對我都是深刻的療愈!

Quite of learning from yesterday's talk:
1
Simple dreams are not simple
grandfather and 3yr you:
Your inner self has   Grandfather 影子
his impact to you, passion and fear all mixed , shown in your life to some extent.
And your parents' high expectations as well.
What impressed me so much was you have live up their dreams and yourself dreams, despite not 100%, some might disappointed your mom, but you found it was important to chase your own desire, passion,  become your own master.of life.
你选择做自己,而不是做罐头。You got Courage, confidence and fulfilment throughout your life.
2
Never to give up, finding all resources to make your dreams come true.
Your life experiences brings a strong message how to turn impossible to reality, because u have dreams, determination.
3
Guilt v.s. passion, affection to HK and our nation

Did u see the intention of your guilt,  it is beautiful. Give self recognition, give self a big hug. Once you inner self knows you are appreciaye yourself, his guilt will be gone.

your SLEEP dream about seeing 梁愛詩
Your heart is in HK fate. Your love beyond the small self but go farr away.
From learning past exp. you reminded us more what HK really need ,  vision!

You are soo passionate, that is Mathew.  Give yourself a big credit.

Then you found yourself is not just helpless, but still can live a great life, with dreams to make people around happier.

4
Sleep  dreams are window of Soul
All dreams help us to find ourselves at different life phase, what u really need to do NOW.
It was great to hear your daily action goals, love self truely from inside out.
Yes, we CAME UP to the point that
每个人都有能力改善自己
相信自己, 相信别人
亲密关系的🔑。
6
活到100 and beyond!!!
TO ACHIEVE THE ULTIMATE GOAL, WE ALL NEED TO HEAL OURSRLVES, TO BUILD A BETTER LIFE  .

Just amazing, the first time i heard from all of my previous sections...
Just amazing!

I really learnt soo much from you. You are my teacher, really.

Good morning Donna,                             昨晚我大概用了三个小时把你给我的feedback 看了又看,迈看迈悟,更听到一些内心的声音!我接受了人生的不完美,也感受到这也是人生完美之处。如没有比較那知完美!                                           因没有完成的要事,感恩你助了我内心的轉化,由自责和愦憾化为了可惜。在此我还要感谢你对我的肯定和鼓励。                                      
 你2 3 2017 的talk 我昨晚也听和看了,我还需多点了解才能作feedback。我今午回港后会和你联络        

Donna:
你说的很透彻,不完美,遗憾后面除了我们可以内疚,然后接纳,更重要的是看到背后的真诚,大爱,继而找回内在的力量,move forward, 关心好自己,身边挚爱的人...

允许自己有内疚,感受自己的感受,人就放松下来,放手...

我也在学习这些。接受自己能力的限制,自己不能控制的事情

  你给做了好榜样[Salute]

8 3 2017

 A wonderful talk, your advice and suggestion gave me ideas how to make dream power more convincing to audience.

Thank you soo much indeed.

As u said, dreams reminded us lots of things that we might overlooked, most importamly, it is our inner parents, adviser...    
           
Yes, from now on I would take a good look at my dreams, and try to gain some
insight.
特別是潛意識!
                      
 Really happy to see your reflection on your dream. and your finding on dream power.

11 3 2017




                     
                               
               
 

             
             



             
             

             
             

             
             

             
             


             
             



             
             

             
             

             
             

             
             

         

         
         



     
 


     
           

 
 
 
     
     
     
         
         
             
             
             

             
             
             
             
                 
                     
                     
                 
             

             
             



             
             

             
             

             
             

             
             


             
             



             
             

             
             

             
             

             
             

         

         
         



     
 


     
           

 
 
 
     
     
     
         
         
             
             
             

             
             
             
             
                 
                     
                     
                 
             

             
             



             
             

             
             

             
             

             
             


             
             



             
             

             
             

             
             

             
             

         

         
         



     
 


     
           

 
 
 
     
     
     
         
         
             
             
             

             
             
             
             
                 
                     
                     
                     
                 
             

             
             



             
             

             
             

             
             

             
             


             
             



             
             

             
             

             
             

             
             

         

         
         



     
 


     
           

 
 
 
     
     
     
         
         
             
             
             

             
             
             
             
                 
                   



Sunday, February 5, 2017

"恐音症" - 處理情緒大腦部分太活躍

【明報專訊】有些人對旁人咀嚼聲或呼吸聲等普通聲音都會感到困擾,這被稱為「恐音症」(Misophonia)的症狀起因成謎。最新研究認為,是處理情緒的大腦部分過度活躍,而且聯繫到重喚記憶的腦結構部分,因此可能喚起不快記憶,觸發過激反應。研究結果相信有助科學家找出治療辦法。
處理情緒大腦部分太活躍
在《當代生物學》期刊上周四刊登的最新研究結果中,由紐卡素大學神經科學研究所學者庫馬(Sukhbinder Kumar)領導的團隊,透過為200名平均發病年齡為12歲的「恐音症」患者做腦掃描比對,發現共通點在於其連結感官與情緒的大腦「前島葉皮質」(anterior insular cortex)過度活躍。
研究用上中性聲音如雨聲、令人不快的聲音如嬰孩哭聲,以及多數會觸發恐音症反應的聲音,如咀嚼聲和呼吸聲來做比對。當患者聽到特定聲音時,「前島葉皮質」就會過度活躍,一般人卻沒有相同反應。
研究顯示,患者腦部前島葉皮質聯繫到杏仁體和海馬體的方式亦與常人有別,後兩部分皆為重喚過去經歷的腦部構造。庫馬說:「恐音症患症大多曾有極差的經歷。當他們聽到那些聲音,他們的注意力都會被聲音完全吸引,完全做不到其他事情。」目前恐音症未有治療方法,患者只能戴上耳塞,避免被特定聲音刺激。
(BBC/紐約時報)

Saturday, February 4, 2017

找到自己内在自由的天堂

5 2 2017 ( Annisa)

昨天和Anna相谈3小时,一颗从如此未敞开的心,如同泉涌,慢慢的打来。

一开始我留意到她的表情显得很局促,比较紧张,不知如何是好,也许有许多的话题想和我分享,不知从何处说起。也许有太多压抑,连自己也不知道。也许长期不善于表达自己,等待我带她慢慢的探索。

我看到她的面色不好,很累的样子,相信睡得不好。最需要的是来一个小休。放松。

于是,一番warmup,(谈到老人大脑退化的治疗)。然后我给她一个deep hypnosis催眠 。开始一把紧锁的面孔,开始放松,慢慢进入浅睡、中度睡眠的状态。

15分钟后,她的精神好了很多,放松很多。我直接问她,最想探索什么?疏解是什么?有什么困扰着自己?有什么最想解决和放下,突破!

1. 内疚,担心和被委屈的状态,长期困扰着A

A是一个把自己的快乐完全建筑在别人的身上,处处为别人着想的人。

妈妈有病,近年的身体不好,最近入院。妈妈是他心中的偶像,是最她最敬爱的人,也是她生命的支柱。如果陪m太多时间,她会内疚。

但Mata是她的挚爱,没有时间陪Mata,看到Mata 也有埋怨,也会令她内疚。M担心她没有了自己,太亲妈妈。

明白了A对妈妈的那种爱来源于家庭的爱的气氛和熏陶,继而产生强烈的责任感,而非单单的依赖,我安慰A,我说,M的原生家庭令他没有这种强烈的家庭观念,但M成长了,他将会明白A。请她放心,这个内疚将会消失,只要m可以都一些了解和理解A

A仍不时有一种自己是m家变的源头的罪恶感。这种内疚,深深伤害着她。

m是否没有给予他足够的安全感?保证和承诺?还要坚持三人共处?这对A
是一个担心和不满,不安的很大原因。

A最近的不开心,或是Mata的不开心,源于M 和他的一些弟弟妹妹的关系的紧张,由于M的一些对于前妻分手的原因的解释。A 感到不适当,而且有受伤害的感觉,因为别人可能想到是她导致。M和家人的关系的紧张,令她有不安和焦虑,更有自责和内疚。


2 Travel - Aa并不喜欢旅行,感到很疲累。但为了M,也许M为了令A
开心,这需要M明白。

3 转化的过程

1/ 两个鸳鸯,受到社会,两个家庭的压力和不被接纳的状态。

有句话:



但这需要极大的勇气,对自己的忠实和自我强化的能力。

我告诉A,家人最希望的是你们活的开心,只要你们可以证明给他们,你们的关系是建筑在真爱上!

我问A,每次旅行,妈妈的态度?原来,妈妈的态度已经在改变!没有反对。这已经是很大的安慰!慢慢,A可以多一些和妈妈谈到M的为人,善心和太太的分手的情况,这些都会令妈妈放心,安心。而妈妈说,你的一切我都非常清楚!这句话令A非常惊讶,妈妈的水很清,暗暗在支持她,我说,妈妈的改变是因为你对m的爱,m对你的爱,慢慢感动了妈妈。说以,A的内疚可以慢慢消除,只要好好和妈妈沟通,对各个方面的压力都会大大减少,大家的信赖都会大大增加!

2/ 这同时适应于m,望m可以和A多些沟通,商量,才发出自己的言论,将产生误会,特别是对A的误解,对m自己的误解降到最低。

Conclusion:

学习真正爱自己,通过宽恕原谅别人,放过自己,放下和善意友好理智的沟通!

所有沟通,最深层的部分,也是最关键的部分,和内在的沟通。我和A 体验到催眠,静心的好处,不仅放松可以好好睡一觉那么简单,而是令我们专注,让我们沉淀,找到自己心灵的一片净土,享受自己最有力量的状态,不是来自外界,而是自己!                      
                     
A完全拥有这个能力和力量,Amazing!

 👍👍true. Beautiful heart, Open heart,  A !🙏🙏💞💞 Best wishes to both of A and M. You will stay happily forever.🌈🌈                      
[ be happy together forever after so much storms,uneven road.                      
 learning to love ourselves is the greatest love.of all. I deeply felt again from our talk. Understanding, forgiving, open minded, expression directly with compassion, win win attitude, etc, all basic elements of good communication.                    
 Thanks, Donna🙏🙏🙏I shall make effort to assist A


努力,加油。💪🏻希望Donna 透過今天為您們精💞設計的心靈洗滌/喚醒之旅, 加埋您們2月下旬台灣南之高雄遊,您倆💑的關係更上多層樓🏩(不是一層樓這麼小),謝。🤗                      
 一定会有更深的了解👍🍻                      
[Fiona, 多謝您和Donna的鼓勵🙏🙏🙏我相信,A和我都有足夠動力去行上幾層樓的,我哋會努力💪💪💪                      

                   
多謝各位的祝福,支持和鼓勵,我們一定努力。                      
祝福






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Sunday, January 1, 2017

快练拍手功

若要不生病,快练拍手功,拍手出奇迹。

    人都是活在掌声中,得到掌声越多,活得会越起劲。推行拍手功后,我会告诉患病的朋友,别计较别人给自己多少掌声,先给自己一些掌声吧!自己给自己好好鼓掌,可以让自己活得更开朗、更有活力。
拍手功的发明人邱水旺先生28岁时因患骨癌,遂去西藏某喇嘛庙学习身心修炼之法,34岁时又因半身麻痹,无奈中忆及在西藏练禅功时其师父总是牵著他的手连拍多次的治疗情景,顿悟,遂开始拚命拍手,至满身大汗,顿觉全身舒畅。其后便每天花很多时间在拍手上,身体逐渐康复并脱离癌症的魔掌。
  拍手功可以说功效非凡,几乎所有急慢性疾病都可拍手而愈。如“可以治疗感冒发烧、头痛、鼻塞、流鼻水、咽痛、咳嗽;可以提升免疫力;可以改善和治疗癌症;还可以改善一切慢性病,包括全身关节酸痛、冬天手脚冰冷、头晕头痛、身体虚弱、心悸冷汗、忧郁恐惧、肥胖、血压高、低血压、糖尿病、尿毒、肝病、胃病、气喘、心肌梗塞、恶梦、反应迟钝、老人脑力退化健忘、女人经痛、神经衰弱、脾气暴燥、皮肤病、近视远视、老花眼、青光眼、白内障、目视不清、眼痛、眼涩、干眼症、耳鸣、重听、下痢、便秘、口臭、口苦、口干、呃逆、梦遗、滑精......
  尤其感冒的人,拍手拍到流汗为止(约二十分钟),感冒立刻痊愈;暍醉酒的人,拍手拍到流汗,酒醉就会全退;开车爱困的人,把车子停妥,拍手一阵子,睡意会消除;心脏无力、心律不整的人,拍手二、三个月,就有改善;糖尿病的人拍手,血糖指数会逐渐正常;手指酸麻或颤抖的人,拍手一、二个月就会痊愈;高血压的人拍手,血压会下降;低血压的人拍手,血压会上升;痛风、头晕、头痛、鼻子过敏的人,拍手会逐渐痊愈;精神不振、容易疲劳、火气大的人,拍手会慢慢改善等等” 。
一、简述
  拍手为什么会有这么神奇的功呢?因为我们的手上有数百个穴位,拍手时可以振荡气脉, 带动十二经脉和奇经八脉(含任督二脉)的循环,而且把身上阴寒和污秽之气,从十个手指的尖端排山去。 中医说:所有的疾病都是气血失调所造成的,血气来引导,因此气是健康的关键。 气的顺畅与否会影响生理机能、内外分泌、血液循环系统、呼吸系统、消化系统、免疫系统等。 拍手既然可以促进气血的通畅,当然可以改善疑难杂症。
二、拍手功所对治的各种疾病
  拍手功几乎可以对治一切慢性病。 一般最常见的急性病乃是感冒发烧、头痛、鼻塞、流鼻水、咽痛、咳嗽等。
  拍手功可以提升免疫力,对于平常容易感冒的人非常有效。
  拍手功可以补充吾人体内的氧气,故可以保护体内的正常细胞,以抑制癌细胞的复制。 另拍手功是一种非常阳刚的气功,可以提振体内阳刚之气,打开胃口, 使人有信心、有活力,因此拍手功能改善一切慢性病,拍手功可以抗癌。
三、拍手功的练法
  (一)以拍手的打击面来分可分为:  

1、标准的拍手功:将十指张开,两手的手掌对手掌,手指对手指用力拍。 这种拍法丘老师把它叫做「实心掌练法」。它的优点是打击面最完全,刺激量最大, 所以治病强身的效果最好;但躁音相当会人难以消受。
  2、变通的拍手功:为了减少练功时的躁音,丘老师教人用「空心掌」拍手,也 就是将手掌弓起,拍手时手指仍应张开,拍下去时,只有拍到手指尖及手掌的边缘部分。
  3、另一种变通的拍法是局部拍手。即右手拍左手,后左手拍右手。重复施作。
 (二)以拍手时的姿势来分,可分为:
  1、坐着拍手。2、站着拍手。3、一面走一面拍手。4、原地踏步拍手。以上四种姿式,以第3、4种手脚并动的效果较好。
四、练拍手功的时间与地点
拍手功不宜在刚吃饱后练,否则会妨碍消化,饭后至少要过半小时才能练。理论上说, 只要不是肚子饱,随时皆适合练拍手功。
对上班的人来说,可能练功比较没有那么方便。所以最好利用早餐前或晚餐后半小时练功。 利用清晨早餐前几分钟,拍手刺激手上身体各部反射区,以活全身各组织器官,兼可提振精神, 使身体发热,对一天的心情是很有助益的。
  晚餐后略事休息,一面散步一面拍手,可帮助消化,又可消除每天累积的身心污染, 确是有必要的。
  山上林木茂密,无人之处是最好的拍手地点。人迹罕到的公园,空气清新,也是练拍手功的好所在。 自家的客厅、书房、卧室,只要空气流通,不会影响周遭的人都适合拍手。
五、余论
  正常人每天清晨拍五分钟,就可以激活一天的活力。若想很快治好难缠的慢性病, 必须每天抽出至少半小时,狠狠地拍手,不要怕痛,也不要怕耗费时间。
  怀孕的人任何运动都不宜太激烈,否则有伤胎之虞,练拍手功亦然,不宜发出太大声响, 否则胎儿之神识会受到惊吓。因此孕妇只宜用空心掌拍,或用局部拍法。
  练拍手功的人不妨练其它的功,彼此只会相得益彰,不会互相破坏或抵消的
  佛教修行者,最好在练拍手功时,一面拍手一面念佛,这是将练功与修行结合起来,一举两得。
  老年人体弱两脚无力,练拍手功时,最好一面走一面拍,或一面拍一面踏步;若只是坐着拍手, 而两脚不动,气血灌注两手过多,双脚将更加无力,切忌!切忌!