影帝访问的启迪- Be initiative and focus and caring

一连看了两集黎芷珊的影帝访问，刘德华给我印想是：非常专业，努力，专心，细心的人。访问时，他特别穿着数年前情人节接受同一个主持人那件外套，令主持感动备至。

这令我想起一位朋友的话：做人要专心，留心，细心。刘德华做到了。

刘青云是非常直，坦白，简单的人。看待拿奖，十二次被提名，只拿到一次。他认为， 首先看到自 己不够好，然后发现奖项不代表一个人的全部。凡是能平衡自 己的心里，尽力去做,无愧于人,无愧于己,无往而不胜。

刘青云能当上影帝,与他对自己的直觉上那种信心有直接关系.考训练班后收不到通知信,虽然只由17岁的他,主动打电话去寻问,原来寄失了,他收不到,但如果不打这个电话,他的演技天份将埋没,命运也要改写.

One of the key to change destiny is if you are initiative enough - the power of action - be your own master. Even there is only 1% of chances, you still have a chance. If you don't try, the chance is always zero. 

My father is another best example to make family life, children's lives significantly different, all because he would try even if there is only 0.5% chances.  His optimistic spirit and positive approach has big impact on our sibling’s development.

Perception is projection. Change perception, change projection and outcome.

What you see is what you get.

If you want to have it, you will have it.

10-10-2012