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困難不在自己，在別人；障礙不在別人，在自己。最怕的是自己障礙自己。
Self reflection is the process to kill weeds in our mental garden.
"You cannot take the mild approach to the weeds in your mental garden. You have got to hate weeds enough to kill them. Weeds are not something you handle; weeds are something you devastate." -- Jim Rohn
To love yourself means to love people. Read the article and it shows this truth. An article that I shed tears for it touches my heart every time i read.
In the hottest reality show about ladies over 30 who have not yet married, I found most people are not confident inside out. They don't know how to love themselves - ultimately. Most coaches /advisers are in backward way to change the girls. That doesn't work. In UK, similar shows calls " Take ME Out" encourage the ladies to appreciate themselves and accept themselves so that they will confidence inside and attraction/charisma outside.
I found maybe you are too care about the results of things rather about the processes. When your mind is filled imaginary bad results, you cannot resourcefully think for the process - how to make it better. . So your subconscious mind already shut down to try.
Stay in the level 1 not 7, every time you hit the goal, you have confidence to move harder one and step by step to 7 to hit the target. GAEM IS LIFE. LIFE IS GAME. What you do something is everything as habit builds result. Very predictable.
Have you found Father's most common words was " I am Not HAPPY" for no reason And the unhappiness was like a ghost haunting him. Now he is changing by TAI JI and friends around and me and the SUN.
Happiness is a mindset not result. It is a state every minute existing in our mind if we focus on process and focus on what we should do better.
Ironically, the more you look at the goal, money, happiness, scores.., the farther they are away you. The more you focus on helping, kindness, forgiving and self-responsibility and self-assurance, the more happiness, wealth chasing you.
Opportunities are everywhere. Don't care about the results but the processes, if you don't try, you have zero chance; if you try, you have chance to prepare and learn and improve, that is enough, but results are usually very positive. Failures are the best asset if you know how to use it, otherwise, it is your debt. The more failures and earlier you start to experience it, they more happy results and earlier to come to you.
The sound record is my reflection about the talks from Dr Lin and others in the Easter. In their world, everything is positive and their behavior is driven by this belief and the results are predictable.
Mom
困難不在自己，在別人；障礙不在別人，在自己。最怕的是自己障礙自己。
Self reflection is the process to kill weeds in our mental garden.
"You cannot take the mild approach to the weeds in your mental garden. You have got to hate weeds enough to kill them. Weeds are not something you handle; weeds are something you devastate." -- Jim Rohn
To love yourself means to love people. Read the article and it shows this truth. An article that I shed tears for it touches my heart every time i read.
In the hottest reality show about ladies over 30 who have not yet married, I found most people are not confident inside out. They don't know how to love themselves - ultimately. Most coaches /advisers are in backward way to change the girls. That doesn't work. In UK, similar shows calls " Take ME Out" encourage the ladies to appreciate themselves and accept themselves so that they will confidence inside and attraction/charisma outside.
I found maybe you are too care about the results of things rather about the processes. When your mind is filled imaginary bad results, you cannot resourcefully think for the process - how to make it better. . So your subconscious mind already shut down to try.
Stay in the level 1 not 7, every time you hit the goal, you have confidence to move harder one and step by step to 7 to hit the target. GAEM IS LIFE. LIFE IS GAME. What you do something is everything as habit builds result. Very predictable.
Have you found Father's most common words was " I am Not HAPPY" for no reason And the unhappiness was like a ghost haunting him. Now he is changing by TAI JI and friends around and me and the SUN.
Happiness is a mindset not result. It is a state every minute existing in our mind if we focus on process and focus on what we should do better.
Ironically, the more you look at the goal, money, happiness, scores.., the farther they are away you. The more you focus on helping, kindness, forgiving and self-responsibility and self-assurance, the more happiness, wealth chasing you.
Opportunities are everywhere. Don't care about the results but the processes, if you don't try, you have zero chance; if you try, you have chance to prepare and learn and improve, that is enough, but results are usually very positive. Failures are the best asset if you know how to use it, otherwise, it is your debt. The more failures and earlier you start to experience it, they more happy results and earlier to come to you.
The sound record is my reflection about the talks from Dr Lin and others in the Easter. In their world, everything is positive and their behavior is driven by this belief and the results are predictable.
Mom
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