B,
Through the conversation, I found your challenges are more than I expected. You are getting ability to manage them.
It seems most of the challenges are due to communication with the lecturers and understanding the questions. This does occur in working environment. But as a responsible person who has strong sense of leadership mindset - always looks forward way, you will have intention to get better understanding with people , try to keep a good relationship so that people would like to help you, work with you and work for you.
If you want to learn, you will not hesitate to ask and most people will help.
In IT field, I found there are so many great projects and problems to solve, all of them are so creative, mufti-filed linked, needing lots of different know how and knowledge and collaboration. So much to learn by asking questions and study/practice. So I strongly feel that communication skills are extremely important. Thus I recommend you go to meet people instead of working alone more in the summer. By working with people, first, you learn real communication and persuasive ability - how to get your points /ideas really across, or you questions understood. Second, you will build self-assurance and reliance and know insight of what the real IT world is like and what you will try in the near future.
I believe you will get through and grow up into a responsible person with NLP mindset - be your emotion owner and controller. Everything is imaginary and emotion state determines behavior and behavior determines outcome. Learning is emotion dependent as well. So try to adjust at the best emotion and get best use of your resonances. That is called live up with your life fully. Live at this moment, focus at this moment. Every moment if you can focus on a single thing and enjoy it, despite difficulties, you will be a happy man and have a fulfilling life.
http://www.buildfreedom.com/tl/tl12.shtml
An Arabic proverb says: if you have will, you will find resources and if you have no will, you will find excuses. 阿拉伯諺語：『你若不想做，會找到一個藉口；你若想做，會找到一個方法』
Thoughts become things. Absolutely.
Mom
p.s.
Through the conversation, I found your challenges are more than I expected. You are getting ability to manage them.
It seems most of the challenges are due to communication with the lecturers and understanding the questions. This does occur in working environment. But as a responsible person who has strong sense of leadership mindset - always looks forward way, you will have intention to get better understanding with people , try to keep a good relationship so that people would like to help you, work with you and work for you.
If you want to learn, you will not hesitate to ask and most people will help.
In IT field, I found there are so many great projects and problems to solve, all of them are so creative, mufti-filed linked, needing lots of different know how and knowledge and collaboration. So much to learn by asking questions and study/practice. So I strongly feel that communication skills are extremely important. Thus I recommend you go to meet people instead of working alone more in the summer. By working with people, first, you learn real communication and persuasive ability - how to get your points /ideas really across, or you questions understood. Second, you will build self-assurance and reliance and know insight of what the real IT world is like and what you will try in the near future.
I believe you will get through and grow up into a responsible person with NLP mindset - be your emotion owner and controller. Everything is imaginary and emotion state determines behavior and behavior determines outcome. Learning is emotion dependent as well. So try to adjust at the best emotion and get best use of your resonances. That is called live up with your life fully. Live at this moment, focus at this moment. Every moment if you can focus on a single thing and enjoy it, despite difficulties, you will be a happy man and have a fulfilling life.
http://www.buildfreedom.com/tl/tl12.shtml
An Arabic proverb says: if you have will, you will find resources and if you have no will, you will find excuses. 阿拉伯諺語：『你若不想做，會找到一個藉口；你若想做，會找到一個方法』
Thoughts become things. Absolutely.
Mom
p.s.
Interesting research report: how to reduce blind points (盲点)
How emotion generated and how to get a 自在人生- get control of your own life - all depending how you interpreter event. Constructive thinking is the key. Immerse yourself in a positive, beautiful outcome picture, you will have automatic motivation to do constructive things.
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