Improvement in many ways

B,

The Korea trip and many events like all of the self-psychological development courses and SU activities you have involved have brought a sight of sea-change in your attitude to people and emotion control.

Recently, there are three things that you amazed me so much. 

First was how to deal with the Brian’s gas guns. Actually it was an issue how to take a balance between friendship, your commitment and your father’s serious concern. Your calmness and perfectly control in your emotion in face of your father’s emotional advice or overreaction and brilliant balance in the two relationships impressed me so much. I didn't know exactly how you solved it so clearly, quickly. But I believed you started to use tactic and what you learnt before to soften the issue that could be a serious family trouble /confrontation otherwise if you were also as hot tempered as your father. I didn’t take your father’s view completely but I did understand his point and knew it could be serious despite the slight chances. From this I was relieved to see your significant change in emotional control and problem solving ability and if keeping going, you will be on the way to gradually gain leadership mindset – how to soften crisis with a balanced views and learn to be a good mediator, negotiator and leader.

The second thing: I found you start to try to explain complicated ideas in an easier way, to get your idea across as clear as possible with more logic and systematic approach. “If you want to say something, say it clearly.” Chris Howard has such saying. I appreciate this so much. U-life is an exchange of life experiences with your school mates and lectures/scholars and a process of Communication skill jump start.  

On the Sat. lunch in the restaurant, you explicated why it is crucial to look things on forward, optimistic way with example of Steve Jobs. Your father got your ideas and looked especially brightened up that time by your enlightening opinions from the point of "NLP or computer science". 

The third thing was I never expected you went to Grandparents’ home to take stuffs atsuch late time - already midnight on the way home. Thanks you so much. You become much empathetic towards others and begin seeing things from more perspectives. 

Mom