今年聚会好有意思,
年年有今日,小孩子开心成长,
夜晚走山还是第一次呐!孩子们真兴奋!
3-2-2014
Friday, February 7, 2014
信念V.S.財富 - Dr Chow Wah Shan's workshop review and reflection
信念V.S.財富
2013年11月16號的「信念創造財富」工作坊，與一般的創富講座很不同。工作坊生動有趣令人深思, 雖然工作坊已過了一些日子,但工作坊中其中有幾個問題,仍不時在我腦海裡迴盪。
錢代表了什麼?有錢是否就富有?
華山一開始就拿出$100港幣,和三個嘉賓做試驗。他先用這$100做學費,向其中一人學習會計，然後邀請這位嘉賓將賺到的$100，向第二位嘉賓學英文，然後,第二位嘉賓將賺到的$100，向第三位嘉賓學管理，第三位嘉賓再將賺到的$100，用來向華山學溝通。如此一個循環，四個人都善用賺來的$100，學習另一人的專長。結果, 本來只值$100的金錢，創造了$400的實際價值。每個人擁有的增值潛能,加上每個人可以創造的價值,原來是不能估計的.
工作坊中，義工Red的分享講出我們的心聲: “聽到華山說財富/金錢就是能量，必需流動才有價值，真是當頭棒喝！原來把自己擁有的財富、金錢放在銀行或保險箱，等於守財奴，不能為自己創造真正的幸福。唯有分享，讓這些資源流動，生命才會得到真正的富足！”
為何付錢態度,影響人的創富能力?
「信念創造財富」工作坊讓我明白到，我們付出金錢的態度是耿耿於懷還是帶著感恩的心,反映了我們的價值觀和信念，也影響了自己的賺錢能力；越緊張錢,錢越會遠離我們。錢不是數字的交換, 而是財富的交換, 創造財富的工具。我們付錢而同時能夠感謝別人的服務,其實是我們賦予金錢的正能量,令別人開心,別人便會帶來更好的服務；令自己開心,工作也更起勁,錢就變成能量,能量創造更多財富!
財富有多少種?
華山將財富引伸到人生的不同層次。財富何只是金錢那麼簡單?愛心、慈悲、健康、良好的人際關係、溝通技巧、知識、技能、豐富的想像力、創意等等都是財富。
就以做義工為例。雖然沒有金錢回報，但帶給別人的關懷、愛心或物資上的支持，令別人幸福，自己也從中成長，心靈上得以健全，是金錢買不到的財富。這種雙向的回報，可以是精神上的，也可是物資上的，是無價的。
為什麼信念創造財富，而不單靠技術或金錢創造財富？
華山在他最近的隨筆-“金錢是生命能量”中的利用例子說明了信念的決定了結果，也正反映的我對錢的一些錯誤觀念。
“我從小家窮，內心常帶著「我是窮家小孩」的信念，即使到大學教書，心態仍然貧窮，生活如常節儉，彷彿向宇宙宣佈：「我不值得富裕！」難怪我總是錢來錢去。十年前，開始做生命導師，仍是不好意思收錢，以為講錢失感情，曾多次豁免貧窮人士，結果弄巧成拙：對方上課中途稍微不滿便拂袖而去，我覺得很失望，其實是不滿自己對金錢的抗拒。後來，終於確定自己值得擁有財富，才心安理得收錢。從此，我的財富源源不絕，學員也喜悅地付款，覺得物超所值。”
想發達，想住大屋，人之常情，但只想想而已，是白日夢。潛意識不想付出，生活就不會有任何改變。從中令我看到，“我們得不到我們想要的，只能得到我們相信的。”
怎樣才能將想法變成信念，將信念變成行動?這才是創富的關鍵。
我個人認為，通過做冥想、靜心(自我催眠的一種)，可以有效地幫助自己，將想法變成信念。
好欣賞所在華山在工作坊裡一次又一次的帶大家做建立正確財富觀念的冥想和對財富的觀想(Affirmation
on creating wealth)， 帶著我們學習用槓桿的力量，透過團隊協作，與宇宙大愛，將無限資源融成一體。
‘團隊嬴，就是個人嬴；
個人嬴，團隊不一定嬴。 ’
將個人的夢與大家的夢連在一起，這個集體的潛意識就會形成巨大的動力，建立起一個資源共享的平台，創造巨大財富– 這，也許就是宇宙的能量。
Donna Wong
Updated --------22-1-2014
Please visit the workshop on 22 March
金錢是生命的能量，直接反映自我價值感。金錢，猶如愛，需要流動
導師﹕周華山博士，自在社(義務)導師兼總幹事
Please visit the workshop on 22 March
「信念創造財富」工作坊
金錢是生命的能量，直接反映自我價值感。金錢，猶如愛，需要流動
貧窮，往往源自負面信念，例如：錢是骯髒的、錢令人自私貪婪、講
吸引力法則﹐相信生命一切成果﹐都由自己的信念創造出來。
在這個工作坊﹐把「吸引力法則」應用於生命最重要的幾個範疇﹐
日期﹕2014年3月22日星期六晚8:00-10:30pm
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導師﹕周華山博士，自在社(義務)導師兼總幹事
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Thursday, February 6, 2014
A Lesson From Forrest Gump
Dear Steve,
Self Hypnosis ( self dialogues) is going on every minute in our brain. It is a mental program.
Lots of second gains look to keep us safe but to sabotage us from develop our potential and to get real happiness because of fears.
I read your email every time you sent to us, inspiring and practical, lots of real life experiences and my own shadow cleaning process can be continuing while studying/listening your hypnosis audio.
We are nothing, then we can be everything. Too many limited decisions sabotage our future and our happiness by ourselves.
Forrest Gump is a good example of no fear, no limit.
I am preparing to be a hypnotherapist, you are my online mentor, coming to me on time.
Thank you and grateful to know you at turning point.
Thank you Steve and it is grateful for me to get your spiritual support at the time of my life turning point.
Donna
7th February -2014
On Fri, Feb 7, 2014 at 12:35 AM, By Steve G. Jones
My favorite movie is Forrest Gump. Here's a guy who didn't know he wasn't supposed to achieve greatly. He just did it. He ran across the country, played ping pong at a world championship level, saved his friends from certain death in a jungle of Vietnam, and disassembled his rifle in record time just to name a few of his achievements. He was not 'smart' enough toknow that normal humans 'can't' achieve these things.We are all programmed in our youth to know our general direction in life and our limits. Nobody says to us "You will be a lawyer and make $100,000 per year." Or "You will be a carpenter and make 50,000 per year." Through a series of experiences and information we receive from parents and others, we form a subconscious image of what we should 'be,' how much money we are worthy of earning, how attractive we are (and therefore how attractive our mate should be), etc. If at any time we are 'threatened' with achieving beyond our subconscious boundaries in any of these areas, sabotage kicks in to bring us back in line. This happens so that we don't get hurt and so that we don't feel the pain of being uncomfortable, of being in the unknown, of violating our programming.Sabotage is designed to protect us and to keep us safe. It's also designed to punish us when we violate the programming of our parents, etc. It sends us to our rooms because we were 'bad,' it takes away our playmates because we were 'bad,' it doesn't give us our allowance because we were 'bad.' We are living as children and thinking we are in control of everything, yet we are still being punished. So we have the aspect of sabotage that punishes us and the aspect that protects us by keeping us in the 'safe' zone.Think about it, if you earned more money you might be expected to maintain that level of achievement and this could make your life uneasy. So you quit your high paying job "because it's too corporate" or lose money in Las Vegas on a regular basis "because it's fun to gamble, but the house always wins." If you lost all that weight, you may attract attention from the opposite sex, which in the past has lead to problems. So you binge "just a few times a week because that's not overdoing it." If you stopped smoking, you would have to deal with those feelings of anxiety that led you to smoke. So you smoke "because this is a really stressful time. Next month will be a better time to stop." You come up with some logical reason for your sabotage and then you go ahead and sabotage yourself.What is really going on is that you are going back to where you feel you belong, where you are comfortable, where you feel you deserve to be. When working with aspiring actors, I tell them that I could set up a $10,000,000 movie deal for them. But there would be certain requirements they would have to meet, and a violation of any of those simple requirements would disqualify them from the movie deal. They would have to show up at Paramount studios at 10 AM on Wednesday, bring a pen to sign a contract and be prepared to fly to Australia for two weeks to shoot the movie. I then guarantee them that if they have a sabotage program running in their mind, they will find a way to undermine this golden opportunity. Either they will show up after 10 AM, think it was Tuesday instead of Wednesday that they we supposed to meet, forget their pen, or be so afraid of flying that they could not fly to Australia.It's like the old saying, "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink." If you are running a sabotage program in your mind, you will get to that water, but not allow yourself to drink. You will subconsciously destroy your chances of having success in that situation so that you can remain where you fell safe or feel you deserve to be.Hypnosis offer s an easy solution to all of this. It reprograms your mind to eliminate those barriers. Those who think they cannot be hypnotized or that they are 'smarter' than that need only to look around. Everything in their lives is due to hypnosis -- everything: their mate, their lack of a mate, their car, the amount and type of assets in their portfolio, their debt, their job, their friends, everything. They are programmed to gravitate toward certain situations and people and to accept them in their lives. If we want to change any part of our lives, we must first prepare our minds to accept the change, otherwise we will go right back to where we are pre- programmed to go, where we feel safe, where we feel we belong.Why do some people work really hard for a college degree and stop right before they get it? Things come up, they get married, they get busy at work, they run out of money. Nonsense. If you really want something and feel you are worthy of it, you will find a way to get it. What really happens is that their programming kicks in and they stop because they are about to exceed a pre-set limit. Why do some people get engaged several times but never married? Often it is because they are pre- programmed to sabotage marriage to avoid pain. Perhaps they saw their mother suffer through an abusive marriage and their mind programmed them to avoid that pain. So they choose a potential mate that subconsciously they know will not work out, or they simply back out of the situation, or they begin engaging in a series of actions devised by their subconscious mind to undo the relationship.Sabotage is not you working against yourself, it is you trying to keep yourself safe. The problem is that when we get a bit older and want certain things consciously, we are subconsciously programmed not to have those things.That's where hypnosis can help. The subconscious mind can be reprogrammed. Rather than just deciding to allow more money, a better mate, better health, etc. into your life, it is infinitely more powerful to reprogram yourself on a subconscious level, to delete the outdated programming and allow the updated programming in. If you are running Windows 95 on your computer, you need to update to the current version. You don't get there by wishing it to be so, or acting as if it is so, you get there by eliminating the obsolete parts of the old Windows program and adding the latest, most powerful Windows technology. This is how your mental computer works, too -- you must reprogram to move ahead in your life.You can take to heart a lesson from Forrest Gump. You can become unaware of your 'boundaries' and surpass them. Your abilities are limitless. Once you remember to forget your imagined boundaries, you are free.Keep moving forward!Dr. Steve G. Jones, Ed.D.,Clinical Hypnotherapist"To anyone interested in improving their life in any way, I would highly recommend anything that Steve G. Jones has created."Dr. Joe Vitale
Star of "The Secret"#1 Best Selling Author of "The Attractor Factor"
Wednesday, February 5, 2014
多一句讚美
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