Last night, CK shared his dream with me and we discussed for a long time. I learnt so much from his dream insights and wisdom...🌈🌈🌈
Here is parts of the dream insights天花板就要塌下来了
CK dream:
DREAM:
6 7 2017 midnight 3 pm
In the dream, the ceiling is going to crush, feeling soo insecure and waked up.
Not very scared but went out to sleep in a sofa bed. When turn on the light, he couldn’t be able to find the door to the dinning room. Very sleepy, 朦朦胧胧,半醒半睡!
In the morning, surprised he did go out to sleep. Followed his intuition.
TRIGGERS:
1
At the end of July, he is going to completed two years of separation. Decided to ask for devoice. In the group of his DP31, he looks very positive and forgiving ness, but he now claimed to take such action, people WOW and feel he betrays his promises, he is under people pressure
2
Family pressure: not all siblings agree with him and are very angry with him. More bis his wife Joyce.
Annisa mother: not agree with him to marry Annisa if not divocie.
3
Joyce , his wife is the key to be worried and one of biggest worry is the impact of divorce to his son.
4
His son: very hate him, cannot communicate for a long time even at home before
Dream insights:
1 feeling: 醒来, 感觉在梦中,他不是那么害怕,但被吓醒。我认为,潜意识天花板下榻的可能性只是一个比喻,所以,不是真实的下榻,所以,很深的惊吓,而不是表面上的。因为他马上离开睡房,而且急得找不到门。可见,内在是害怕,fearful
2
天花板下榻,是个很大的事情呀!
暗示有什么事情可能会发生?关系破裂!更多的关系的破裂!
在倾谈中,感受到CK有几方面的worry,不安:
身边朋友的不被理解,不安,
女朋友和家人也有不安,如果不离婚
太太是最大的不接纳,不了解,不同意
家人也有些不认同,导致关系
儿子的关系,从来不敢去接触。
3
我让他想想离婚和不离婚的分别,真正的爱不是一张婚约,就是一定要离婚,离婚也要有家庭的爱!给儿子爱!
儿子是最大的受害者,要扭转这个局面!
要让太太放心,自己和儿子的关系改善会带来情感的连结,让他感受到有爱!
让太太心身安顿,儿子就会安顿!
4
CK可以表达对太太的关心,同时大家在一起会有摩擦,对孩子未必是好事!但离开家,我其实从没有离开心中的家,我的梦时时刻刻都提醒我要对家人负责,关心大家,维系关系,不想天花板掉下来,屋顶飘走,席子飞走,恐惧背后-噩梦背后,都是爱!感受恐惧,恐惧就会消失,勇气就会出来,梦境背后的渴望就会实现!
5 恐惧背后-噩梦背后,都是爱!感受恐惧,恐惧就会消失,勇气就会出来,梦境背后的渴望就会实现!
CK:
非常多謝Donna讓我更深層次地瞭解自己的潛意識🙏🙏🙏
我確需要勇氣去面對自己,去消除自己的担心,去感受Joyce和兒子Ken的傷痛,不要讓天花板真的塌下來!我需要重建與她們的關係,幫助她們接受現況;同時間,要加强與Anissa和她家人的諒解,讓天花板完整無缺!我會努力的💪💪💪
再次多謝Donna🙏🙏🙏
14 7 2017