Wednesday, January 29, 2014

A letter to Dr Chan (My reflection on Hypnotherapist Trainer Course - Jan, 2014 by API) 給老師,同學的信


Dear Dr Chan, Mandy, Sharron, and my soul mates,


I would like to thank you all again for giving us such a wonderful experience, an experience full of laughter, tears, love, compassion and vision.

The biggest award from your course for me is as a hypnotherapist or coach, the first thing is to listen with empathy, entering into the coachee's world, speaking their language and to discover their life at their angle so that rapport and trust can be built
organically.

The second important learning is from your case studies - the most precious experiences that you try to pass to us. In every case, there is something in common, Map is NOT Territories. Change the Map, change the emotion and therefore the behavior and habits, and our fates.

How to change the MAPS? There is one sentence we have heard endless times in your class and actually from many mentors in my life, that is,
寬恕,包容,接受,回到安頓,平和的狀態,潛意識自然會找到答案,問題就是答案,就是解決. (Ultimate humanity - 以人為本, 每個人都有能力解決自己的問題,每個人都可以是自己世界的掌控人- the master of own life)

From Dr Chan's class and Mandy section on presentaion, I got to realize what is humanity and why humanity can empower person from ordinary to an influential.
Working as a clinical hypnotherapist is a process of healing self and empower others. 
Honestly, it seems I had understood the philosophies for a long time but whenever problems arrive, still I can be fallen into frustrated state or have no ideas how to solve. Dr Chan, you applied hundreds of cases to show us what you mean by the above philosophies and how you apply them tactfully, smartly, successfully, while respecting each case, though every case is unique and special.

I realized that the problem is I still have not let go of my own ego; my love, compassion is still not more enough to understand others better and my skills need to be improved through practice and practice.

學習融入,進入個案的世界.

You make me know that all we need to do is to guide the coachee to know

Where are you now?

What are you doing now?

What is the consequence and suffering?


What do you really want?

The
meaning of life and goal?

How to build a habit to achieve it?


Your secret to be a sustainable hypnotherapist is 不主動,不建議,不負責. This is really useful advice to be happy, healthy coach.

In terms of language skills, use questions, open sentences and metaphors are our language of hypnotherapy.

學習抽離,擁有自己平靜的空間
, 不被負面的情緒影響. 讓所有負面的東西成為我們成長的營養的元素,陪伴個案一起走過成長路.讓自己從中得以修煉,修正,走出自我,向超我.

You have expanded my horizon
​​n on past life, future life and present life. I found all of past life or future life is an imagination, a map of own world. We can learn from the "life", change the map to change the unwanted life and create a new, desired life.
過去,現在和將來都同時存在时空,心中。像一個DVD, 擁抱它們,然後,學習應學習的,放下應放下的,留住應留住的。

陳老師令我感到做為一個催眠師,最重要是令人感到親切,可信,可以讓人放鬆, making people be themselves, set them free, make them think, reflect and move forward.

 
陳老師在我的惡夢分析中,讓我得到另一個重要的醒覺:

 
I had fear that my conscious mind was not aware. It is not important why I had such fearful dreams but to understand that the fear in the dream might present a general worry of something that I can't control.

Dr Chan advised that for things we cannot control, we get to accept, learn lessons from the events or dreams and let go, then just move forward.


陳老師:
 
上了您的課,最直接的感覺是踏實了很多。因為看到自己不足,也看到潛能。另外,好像有了可以approachable icon.可以參照的坐標。只有跳出自我,放下ego ,不斷清理自己,才能作到無條件的愛,支持,聆聽,關懷,對家人,對個案都如此。

超我,是需要修行。現在我有多些信心:不需做到學到完美才去做,通過做的過程,令自己也改變,走向完美。
Right, all hypnosis is self -hypnosis. Thank u. Thanks all mates.
I am ready to start and love to do hypnotherapist as a mission of my life.

Feeling grateful for having such an unforgettably enlightening, spiritual time with Dr Chan and all heart-and-soul mates. The learning will impact my life, become part of my life for sure.

 Donna
p.s.

Notes from the course: after helping cancer patients for many years, Dr Chan says:
Cancer is the best disease that gives u time to finish unfinished business. To say goodbye and and sorry or  say i love u. There is nothing to worry about but enjoy the last moment of life.every day is a gift,so just to enjoy until last minute and to do something meaningful and donate all ability to benefit people . Then life will be much happier than just living in worrying or fear.

Dear Dr Chan,
It was a great pleasure in your class. Your humble and humorous character like warm sun in the winter, your positive thinking, wisdom and peaceful mind like spring water. Lots to learn how to be happy and bring happiness to others from you.

30-1-2014
Let our beautiful memory leave in the photos and live in our minds -
The spiritual group


A trainer Certificate is only a symbol.
You've got to try it

My new icon in hypno-coaching

All girls with our teacher

lovely Momo and me



 
老師和兩個東東加上一個冬冬
老师的回信 - 一支强心针

各位同學:大家好!
感謝APTI的安排與大家來參加此次的講師班課程!
更感謝大家在課堂中的合作與分享!
我也從你們的身上學到許多寶貴的觀念與經驗!
相信你們一定會成為很優秀的精神導師!
再次感謝各位!也祝大家
身體健康!闔家新年快樂!
一德敬上

3-2-2014


My favorite song dedictate to you. A song speaks for my mind/our minds  and endless thanks to you...

donna
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本機構為國內第一個美國催眠師學會認可之催眠訓練機構 凡完成「NGH 催眠治療師證照班」之訓練者, 即可取得美國催治療眠師之執照 ,並加入美國催眠師學會
本機構也是國內唯一擁有「 美國NGH催眠講師授證資格」之機構。 資深催眠治療師,通過講師訓練後,可以合法開課教授NGH催眠治療師課程,並有資格核發催眠治療師證書。歡迎有志成為催眠教育工作者的朋友,加入我們的行列。
本機構由陳一德醫師於 1998 年成立,是國內最早推廣 NGH 催眠課程的團體,多年來已經培育許許多多優秀的催眠治療師,為台灣的催眠環境奠下深厚的基礎。
陳一德醫師更於 2004 年,獲得美國催眠師學會 NGH 肯定,成為亞洲第一位也是唯一之MCI ( Master Cetified Instructor )。也榮獲教授專業催眠講師班 ( Train the Trainer course )之教師資格,陳一德醫師是全球第三位也是華人首位獲得此殊榮的講師,本機構也因此得以進一步培育催眠訓練講師,讓更多有志推廣催眠的人,不必花費龐大費用,遠至國外上課,就可以在台灣完成催眠訓練講師的課程,成為 NGH 催眠訓練講師。這些年來也有許多來自海外,如:日本、香港、新加坡、馬來西亞等國的學員,專程來台灣參加此課程。



催眠治療師發證導師課程 (NGH 認證導師課程)
Hypnosis Trainer's Training Certification Course


報讀的4大原因
ABHACHEIMDHA催眠師也可報讀
本課程歡迎其他學會的催眠治療師報讀,令不同學會學員之間能在多樣化的模式下互相學習交流,提升課程水平。
NGH首位華人培訓導師
由美國NGH認證的催眠治療師發證導師課程由 陳一德醫師 主理,是2004年成為NGH首位華人導師培訓師, 12年培訓導師經驗,香港著名的催眠治療導師亦是陳醫師的門生。
豐富臨床應用經驗
陳醫師是一位執業牙醫,擅以催眠治療應用至醫學治療方面,以達致協同作用。近年陳醫師將重心放在以催眠方式協助癌症病患安頓身心上。強調,治療來自外來,而療癒來自內在。
普通話教授,廣東話翻釋
是次課程加設廣東話即時詮譯服務,讓學員能在學習時更容易了解當中的內容,令催眠的技術更易掌握,投身培育新一代治療師的行業。
本課程專為有志在催眠治療取得進一步專業資格、成為傑出催眠治療講師的您而設!
 
課程特點及目的
  • 完成此課程及考試合格者,可申請成為 National Guild of Hypnotists (NGH) 之認可講師,更可以合法教授 NGH 催眠治療師之課程與簽發 NGH 催眠師之證書。
  • 由台灣首位經NGH認可的催眠訓練師,陳一德醫師來港任教,整個課程,包括授課及考核均在香港完成,無需遠赴外地,便可取得『發證資格』,機會難逢!
  • 即時廣東話詮譯--- 讓學員更能掌握課程的技巧,融會貫通。
 
課程對象
參加者持以下其中一項資格者均可報讀*
  1. ABH - American Board of Hypnotherapist認可證書 認可NLP執行師證書
    (課程推介:『催眠治療師專業課程- 美國ABH認證。);或
  2. ACHE - The American Council of Hypnotist Examiners 認可證書;或
  3. IMDHA-International Medical and Dental Hypnotherapy Association認可證書;或
  4. NGH - National Guild of Hypnotists認可證書#
  5. 其他國際認可催眠治療師證書

Presentation section review on the Trainer's course

This was a short secion but very practical and insightful -


Tonight was so special. Mandy gave us a vivid, warm and touching section on presentation by sharing her personal experience as an experienced coach, hypnotherapist and a teacher.

His voice is very so soft but firm. Her approachable personality, humble attitude and rich 
experience in public speaking gave me a deep impression.

From her class and Dr Chan's class, I realized what is humanity, why humanity can empower person from ordinary to an influential.
 
Working as a clinical hypnotherapist is a process of healing self and empower others. 
 
I am ready to start and love to do hypnotherapist as a mission of my life. This was the instand feeling from her inspiration.
 
At last, we have a taste of short presentation on any topic that brought a message to influence others.
 
I have a couple of topics at mind but no of them were carefully sorting out.
 
But I trusted subconsciousness. I went out as the first one and introduced a book about dream analysis by Dr Shun Tian Lung ( 孙天伦博士)plus my review.
 
All in my mind at that time was: I am special and unique. I had wonderful story to tell and I wanted to bring a clear message. I wanted to share. That was all, then I was not nervous  and no single butterfly feeling at my stomach. That I didn't expected. 

Because I was totally hypnotized in my speaking and enjoyed the moment of being heard and attraction of people's attention on an interesting book and human's common vulnerability in  subconscious mind, Ifelt no freight at all, amazing!
 
Classmates comments were all positive and inspiring although it was 'compulsive.'

Fluent, eye contact, engaged, interesting and calm and smile and sincere...

Yes, if I believe I can, then I can. 
 
I am nothing. Then I can be everything. 
 
Actually recently whenever I close my eyes, I  always imagine I have my own courses and workshops, I really like to share and happy to listen. 
 
Every classmate's short presentation was so unexpected and special, profound and insightful. It was a really good chance to learn from each other.
 
I was totally immersed in the class and love hypnosis trainer course.
 
"Be sincere; be passionate, be engaged, be brief; be seated."
 
24.1.2014

Thursday, January 16, 2014

Refelction and Review on a family therapy book


Bradshaw on the Family: A Revolutionary Way of Self Discovery (CHINESE TRANSLATION- 家 庭 會 傷 人)
  我的感想  

我用這幾個字來總結第十章:

原諒家人,原諒自己,
擁抱家人,擁抱自己。
這也是幸福的秘密。

讀到第十章,我更加感到強迫性行為是個人自我防禦系統惡化的表現,也是人性的盲點所在。而導致的原頭是可能使家庭,社會和學校,個人本身等等。

例如,如果父母在外的壓力帶回家庭,雙方產生衝突,再轉嫁到孩子身上,使孩子受到傷害,受到羞辱,產生陰影,積壓在心,產生壓抑。壓抑這種情緒能量,必須有所發洩,而強迫性行為是一種不能自控的行為,成為發洩的渠道,是自我防禦系統的陷阱:以為找到一種補賞,但實際上是一種逃避,循環下去,只能到來大家健康和人際關係的傷害。害人害己。

想起来,早年確實有將脾氣發在孩子身上,給了孩子壓力,也很可能產生陰影。在這裡,我真心向孩子道歉

是的,最重要是要打破這種循環,不要讓它在繼續傷害自己,別人和下一代。也就是要打破這個在自我深築的防禦監獄

原來這是也自我療癒的重要一步。 作者道:我們寬恕自己以及我們的父母。寬恕意味著付出愛心一如往昔,也就是說拋開心中的怨恨及釋放那束縛已久的能量。我們可以愛那也曾經深深受傷的父母,他們也曾經是孩子、是凡人……”

回想自己的原生家庭,大家都互相信賴,愛和支持,更重要的是原諒。寬恕是真愛的表達。是切斷傷人傷己的惡性循環基本條件。

我很喜歡作者所說的健康正常的家庭關係:真正的親密關係的前提是能夠分開、獨立及保持一些距離,在這個距離之下,彼此相愛與尊重。

作者帶我們回到嬰兒,孩提時代,通過自我催眠,冥想,重建信任。

讓我們與自己內在小孩坐最親密的接觸,作自己內在小孩的父母,朋友,兄弟姐妹,給她一個內在完整,充滿愛,平等,和睦,善於溝通的家。承若永遠保護她,愛她,聆聽他的聲音,同時與他學習寬恕,一起成長。

17-1-2014

Beliefs and attitudes determine altitude

My recent reflections -
1
本来没有的路,当有目標,有方向,有坚持,路就会走出來。路就是这样走出來的. 
There is no road in the world until somebody who has clear vision, stamina  and preservation to live on his dream and the road is there - that is his successful road. 

2
What is the meaning by making a difference ? Today I had a teeth check/cleaning and a facial treatment. The two gave me all very good impressions just because they could do just a bit more carefully and  patiently.
This makes me realize that good services is
细心,用心,小心,关心,耐心,让人感覺到有爱心。真心帮人,Then you don't need to worry about business.

3
帶着一团火的梦是醒來仍然继续发梦,不因任何外界因素而放棄。

4
坚持自己的伩念,相信自己每一次会比上一次做得更好,就有成功之日。

Choosing to be positive and having a grateful attitude is going to determine how you're going to live your life.



18-1-2014

Tuesday, January 14, 2014

夢如人生 - 又一個'奇歷'的夢 My dream analysis series

今早臨醒前,發了一個表面上好奇怪,令人不舒服的夢,但實際上卻是一個近來生活中發生的一系列事情,錯誤的濃縮版(by displacement), 剖有啟發性,前瞻性。

夢裡我還很生氣呢,(已經很少生氣了),但醒來卻大贊“好夢”!好感恩!

感恩潛意識(內在的自己) 用如此特別的形式提醒我,敦促我聆聽身體發出的聲心.

也再次感受到 -

夢是自我的照妖鏡;
夢是高層次的自我保護系統- 帶來自我反思;
夢是一盞自我實現的明燈。

在夢中,我和孩子去四川旅行,住在一間酒店,一起床,就要趕著下一個行程。下到大堂集合,才發現沒穿鞋,只穿了襪子。帶來的唯一的一對,漏在上一個酒店了。是那對陪我走了十多年的,鑲有水晶的黑皮鞋。

我馬上通知導遊小姐,但她愛理不理,忙得不想協助我,我跟她理論,結果不知怎樣,很是著急.....,驚醒了。

醒了,整個夢都仍然歷歷在目,第一個感覺是,好在是一個夢。心愛的鞋子還在鞋架上。

我深知這種夢是不能放過的。要分解下,於是夢後的兩個小時,我一直在想這個夢到底想告訴我什麼!

是否有壓抑要發洩下? 有事情需要面對?

象徵符號-SYMBOLIZATION:

原來心愛的鞋子可能代表著內心有些願望沒有實現,有些東西不想放棄;這種怕失去的感覺很強烈。可能是健康,自己的潛能?

夢境和現實生活的聯想 - Association:

最近出現了些 blundering mistakes -

燒乾的一大鍋燙,BURNING SMELL煳味沖天
漏了東西在一間鋪子,後來去取被他們丟掉了;很是無奈;
.......

突然感到,這個導遊就是鋪子的東主. 但我明白,所有夢裡的人物或東西都是自我的投射.

所以,我深知如果仍然認為這個導遊是別人,我會繼續犯同樣的錯誤.
錯誤的源頭是自己:

沒記性,不重視,或太自信......
為什麼會有這樣的現象?思維模式?
是睡眠不足?加上沒有條理?壞習慣?
還是太多心,一心多用?

我先生經常說我太多心,不夠專心,結果在生活中編織出一個個的“好笑故事”,老公,我明白了不少。

夢中我責備導遊不負責任,不幫我;這只能令歷史重演。這個導遊原來是另一個自己,她確實不太盡責,或太多事情,不能顧'內在的我'。

這個夢令我對自己的一些生活方式,習慣和思維模式產生警惕。

夢如人生,人生如夢。
夢是會說話的好朋友,她會製作電影,可怕的情景,逼我們去看自己,直到面對為止。

這個夢也再次呼籲愛惜自己,就是對自己負責,就是對大家負責。也是愛的表現。

夢就是這樣'好玩的東西',在現實生活中,由於要面對很多情,我們的保護機制會盡量對一些不愉快的,甚至痛苦的和醜惡的事情進行壓抑(REPRESSION), 但這一切不過是儲藏在潛意識裡罷了。

在睡眠狀態,潛意識就開始活躍起來,意識上以為'忘記的現實' ,困擾我們的經歷會在夢中以不同形態的象徵符號(SYMBOLIZATION),情景(DISPLACEMENT)出現,令人感到莫名其妙,或旁徨,恐懼。這也是潛意識讓我們學習面對。

由於真正影響我們的思想和言行是潛意識,而“夢是通往潛意識的康壯大道”,分析夢境,是對自己深度了解的過程。從而讓我們可以面對以前不敢或不肯處理的問題,甚至心理創傷,接受自己,面對自己,調整自己,好好整合, 達到改變現狀,讓真我重現,表裡一致,讓"水晶鞋" 不但不會失去,而且穿著它繼續發自己的理想夢.

夢如人生,又一個'奇歷'的夢......

REFERENCE
http://www.dreaminterpretation-dictionary.com/dream-analyzer.html

15-1-2014

又是一个'精彩"的梦

今早临醒前,发了一个表面上好奇怪,令人不舒服的梦,但实际上却是一个近来生活中发生的一系列事情,错误的浓缩版(by displacement),  剖有启发性,前瞻性。

梦里我还很生气呢,(已经很少生气了),但醒来却大赞“好梦”!好感恩!

感恩潜意识(内在的自己) 用如此特别的形式提醒我,敦促我聆听身体发出的声心.

也再次感受到 -

梦是自我的照妖镜;
梦是高层次的自我保护系统 - 带来自我反思;
梦是一盏自我实现的明灯。

在梦中,我和孩子去四川旅行,住在一间酒店,一起床,就要赶着下一个行程。下到大堂集合,才发现没穿鞋,只穿了袜子。带来的唯一的一对,漏在上一个酒店了。是那对陪我走了十多年的,镶有水晶的黑皮鞋。

我马上通知导游小姐,但她爱理不理,忙得不想协助我,我跟她理论,结果不知怎样,很是着急.....,惊醒了。

醒了,整个梦都仍然历历在目,第一个感觉是,好在是一个梦。心爱的鞋子还在鞋架上。

我深知这种梦是不能放过的。要分解下,于是梦后的两个小时,我一直在想这个梦到底想告诉我什么!

是否有压抑要发泄下? 有事情需要面对?

象征符号-SYMBOLIZATION:

原来心爱的鞋子可能代表着内心有些愿望没有实现,有些东西不想放弃;这种怕失去的感觉很强烈。可能是健康,自己的潜能?

梦境和现实生活的联想 - Association:

最近出现了些 blundering mistakes -

烧干的一大锅烫,BURNING SMELL煳味冲天
漏了东西在一间铺子,后来去取被他们丢掉了;很是无奈;
.......

突然感到,这个导游就是铺子的东主. 但我明白,所有梦里的人物或东西都是自我的投射.

所以,我深知如果仍然认为这个导游是别人,我会继续犯同样的错误.
错误的源头是自己:

没记性,不重视,或太自信......
为什么会有这样的现象?思维模式?
是睡眠不足?加上没有条理?坏习惯?
还是太多心,一心多用?

我先生经常说我太多心,不够专心,结果在生活中编织出一个个的“好笑故事”,老公,我明白了不少。

梦中我责备导游不负责任,不帮我;这只能令历史重演。这个导游原来是另一个自己,她确实不太尽责,或太多事情,不能顾‘内在的我’。

这个梦令我对自己的一些生活方式,习惯和思维模式产生警惕。

梦如人生,人生如梦。
梦是会说话的好朋友,她会制作电影,可怕的情景,逼我们去看自己,直到面对为止。

这个梦也再次呼吁爱惜自己,就是对自己负责,就是对大家负责。也是爱的表现。

梦就是这样'好玩的东西',在现实生活中,由于要面对很多情,我们的保护机制会尽量对一些不愉快的,甚至痛苦的和丑恶的事情进行压抑(REPRESSION), 但这一切不过是储藏在潜意识里罢了。

在睡眠状态,潜意识就开始活跃起来,意识上以为‘忘记的现实' ,困扰我们的经历会在梦中以不同形态的象征符号(SYMBOLIZATION),情景(DISPLACEMENT)出现,令人感到莫名其妙,或旁徨,恐惧。这也是潜意识让我们学习面对。

由于真正影响我们的思想和言行是潜意识,而“梦是通往潜意识的康壮大道”,分析梦境,是对自己深度了解过程。从而让我们可以面对以前不敢或不肯处理的问题,心理创伤,接受自己,面对自己,调整自己,改变现状,让真我重现,令"水晶鞋的"  不但不会失去,而且穿着它继续发自己的理想梦......

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Monday, January 13, 2014

Story Therapy study


Everyone loves listening to stories. Story therapy is one of the most persuasive techniques to make a change subconsciously. In public speaking and in daily conversation, we can apply this to be more influential, to make a difference in life.

14-1-2014