Gene,
Please read it and practice and you will think out of box easily:
Invincible thinking
3-6-2011
Part 2
The importance of creating new path /new ideas
I found this chapter extremely useful and practical:
When you have face dilemma, two options in contradictory, don’t give up thinking a way to solve them in best method. Don’t be frustrated at difficulties. Solving Difficulties are the process of improvement and growing up.
There was always a way to make the two options compatible and achieve two purposes at the same time. That is how to align them on the same line.
“ When you find yourself suffering as a result of two opposing desires or needs, don’t allow yourself to be driven to the point where you have to decide between one or the other. Tell yourself that there has to be a way of bring the two contradictory elements together or even finding a third option which will allow to avoid the problem altogether. You just have to continue thinking of a ways to get around the problem, If you keep trying to find a new way of overcoming difficulties, a path is sure to open up before you.
The more you practice the more new ways you will come up with to free yourself free a dilemma, this kind of mental exercise is important if you make a habit of thinking like this, you will find that the chances of coming up with a good idea increase dramatically. “
Sometimes and in most cases, so called dilemma is not reality like what you imagine, it is only your own imagination. Once you are solving them, you find they are not at odd at all. All because of your preconceived ideals limited your potential to try to think out of box. This process is called problem solving, never scared of difficulties and never pre-overwhelmed by them. Reality is much simple and easier than expected.
I found the above conclusion from changing positions of the key board an mouse from old position and strangely, we were scared by the computer until the situation was in unbearable conditions and my arms have been seriously inquired. Why? We solved it finally in 5 min and made to imaginary opposites elements on the same line – we get both benefits without any difficulties. That is A ha.
Action power is the key of success.
DO it now and you can find the best solutions, if you avoid it, the problem only gets worse.
But the first thing is we need to have a right mindset - love giving not all taking. based on this, we will have a drive to face problems and not to pre-occupied by our fears first.
Mon
Mon